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Old 10-18-2012, 08:51 AM
 
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Since I've been single for such a long time. I really don't know how it feels to have a boyfriend in my life at this moment in time. Many times my friends asks me if I would sleep with a man with no strings attached. I really don't know how to respond back to them with a correct answer. I guessed I don't mind if the man was single. However if he's married I will never do that. What would you do?
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Old 10-18-2012, 08:56 AM
 
Location: On the corner of Grey Street
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No, I wouldn't. I always get at least somewhat emotionally attached, I just can't seem to help myself. But everyone is different.
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Old 10-18-2012, 09:03 AM
 
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No, I wouldn't. I always get at least somewhat emotionally attached, I just can't seem to help myself. But everyone is different.
The more times you do something, the less attached you will become at it.
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Old 10-18-2012, 09:24 AM
 
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Since I've been single for such a long time. I really don't know how it feels to have a boyfriend in my life at this moment in time. Many times my friends asks me if I would sleep with a man with no strings attached. I really don't know how to respond back to them with a correct answer. I guessed I don't mind if the man was single. However if he's married I will never do that. What would you do?

I have no problem with that. Actually at times in my life, like now, I prefer it. I stay busy and have plenty of people in my life for companionship, fellowship and love and dont feel Im at a place now to share myself and life in that capacity. I do however enjoy sex with a man.
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Old 10-18-2012, 09:32 AM
 
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Default Would you sleep with a man with no strings attached?

Yeah, why not... it'd make a change, never slept with a man before.

Last edited by Baldrick; 10-18-2012 at 10:58 AM.. Reason: "I like Turtles!"
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Old 10-18-2012, 09:41 AM
 
Location: NY metro area
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I tried to.
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Old 10-18-2012, 09:42 AM
 
Location: Between Heaven And Hell.
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Pinocchio sprung to mind, when I read that title.
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Old 10-18-2012, 09:54 AM
 
Location: Long Island, NY
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Since I've been single for such a long time. I really don't know how it feels to have a boyfriend in my life at this moment in time. Many times my friends asks me if I would sleep with a man with no strings attached. I really don't know how to respond back to them with a correct answer. I guessed I don't mind if the man was single. However if he's married I will never do that. What would you do?
There is no correct answer because it depends on the individual. If you're capable of not getting emotionally attached and the guy is also single, why not? Not saying sleep with every guy that comes your way (no pun intended ).

If you do start having the FWB relationship and you start feeling some kind of emotion, then it's just not for you.

As long as everyone involved is on the same page and there's absolute mutual agreement then I say enjoy yourself and just be careful.
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Old 10-18-2012, 09:55 AM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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Many do, obviously. Anything from a ONS to a FB or FWB. It depends on your attitude towards casual sex, really.
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Old 10-18-2012, 09:56 AM
 
Location: Canada
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The more times you do something, the less attached you will become at it.
Emotions aren't something you can turn off like a lightswitch. Sure you can adapt in certain situations, but is it realistic to think she's going to want to have so many casual sexual encounters that she'll become like a prostitute where sex is just a mechanical act? Doubtful.
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