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Old 10-19-2012, 01:21 PM
 
Location: Infernuan
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Whatever ...if you choose to make something huge out of it because maybe YOU fit that description, well, what can I say? Did you actually read the OP's description of how this guy talks to her? Did you read about the guy in my office and how he has approached me and other women in my office? It's creepy. What comes to mind when I think creepy? I think of Two Wild and Crazy Guys. I'm not going to waste further time on this.
Yes! Absolutely! Those guys sound like a couple of losers, no question. But what in the hell does fat and bald have anything to do with it? Are TDH dudes not capable of 'creepy' behavior?

BTW, I do not fit that description. Not even close. But I am tired of stereotypes and good men being shafted because of them.
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Old 10-19-2012, 01:24 PM
 
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He wants to know if you're hygienic "down there", and maybe in all the sweaty parts?

Nice spin.
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Old 10-19-2012, 01:26 PM
 
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Pretty much.

OP, he's being inappropriate and unprofessional. When he comes over, ask him what you can help him with. If he says he's just there to chat, tell him, "Ooh, sorry, but I have a ton of work to do" and go back to what you were doing.

If it continues, then you might have to tell him point blank that you're super busy and need to cut back on the chit-chat because it's disrupting your work. He'll either get the hint and stop bothering you, ask you out (at which point you could say that you do not date people you work with), or continue to bother you, in which case you would be within your rights to talk to your supervisor about it.

Thank you, Lilac. It's so funny that he doesn't think that I can see what he's up to.

Haven't seen him today (thank god) but I am going to follow all advice given.

Thanks again.
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Old 10-19-2012, 01:51 PM
 
Location: Long Island, NY
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Yes! Absolutely! Those guys sound like a couple of losers, no question. But what in the hell does fat and bald have anything to do with it? Are TDH dudes not capable of 'creepy' behavior?

BTW, I do not fit that description. Not even close. But I am tired of stereotypes and good men being shafted because of them.
I never said that...YOU did. And I'm tired of women who are decent people and good looking who have to deal with jerks at work be labeled as snobs or b*tchy because we don't want any part of their "action". The guy that I work with comes to work with his shirt partially open, chest hairs sticking out, gold chains and feels it's ok to make remarks about my eyes and my hair and doesn't get that sitting on my desk thrusting his crotch my way IS NOT OK. Yes, he looks just like the guys from SNL--the one that Steve Martin plays. That's who I'm comparing someone to because of their actions and their deplorable attitude. The way the OP described what that guy has been saying to her was like reliving what I went through with my co-worker and HE is what I kept seeing in front of me. I've had men of all shapes, ages and sizes hit on me but many of them were respectable about it and some were outright lewd, especially when I turned them down. I never said that ALL men who look like that are creepy so please stop making this something that it isn't.
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