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Yet many of you women expect a man to approach you and generate a conversation out of thin air. Nothing wrong with this lady giving her number to a guy she is interested in. Absolutely ridiculous to think otherwise.
Sorry but I'm not a woman. I just don't see why she should give up her number when all he did was ask her name.
If you are interested agree to meet him for coffee but be careful about giving your number to some random stranger or set up a google voice account and then once you verified he's not a freak give him the real one. Just be careful, because a lot of guys are not used to women asking them out so he thinks he's going score quick, so coming from a guy, if you do that make sure you make it known you are not looking for a quick hookup, unless you are?
I'm walking home from work and I see a guy unloading boxes from a truck and he accidentally dropped the box in front of me. He apologized and asks me if I was working hard all day(I was wearing my uniform). I say he looks like he's working hard right now. He laughs and then asks what my name was. I told him, but then I said I was in a hurry to catch the bus. But would any of you stop and talk and give this guy your number?
He ll ya! You should have hopped in the back of his truck and rode him like a cowboy.
On a serious note. There's nothing wrong with giving someone your number if you just met them and are feeling them, people do it at bars all the time. This is how things were done and have been done for many many years. You don't have to play "eye fk you" for months before getting up the courage to talk to someone. I also agree with the guy who said that it is alright for a girl to start the conversation. When a women does it it seems to speak more volumes. When a guy does it, it might look like he casually does it all the time. Whereas a girl for some reason, it looks like she's serious and isn't going to wait around. Many girls from my past whom I dated/ gone out with approached me first. Guys like that sort of thing. For some reason it gives them a stronger level of reassurance that the girl likes them. Whereas when a guy asks a women out, you don't always know what she thinks of you even if she says yes. But both sides should try if they like someone. You wait to long, and someone else who has bigger bal ls might jump in there.
Last edited by supermanpansy; 10-20-2012 at 11:24 AM..
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