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If you think attraction is based purely on looks, then you're doing it wrong.
What do you mean I'm "doing it wrong". What itintionaly attracts me to a women is her looks, if I'm not attracted to her then there won't be a relationship.
Huh? People here are going to have varying povs and tastes. How can one person's tastes contradict another's?
Because she said looks don't matter and in the same breath said that she wouldn't date a fat person and has to be attracted to the person she is with(which I agree with)
Because she said looks don't matter and in the same breath said that she wouldn't date a fat person and has to be attracted to the person she is with(which I agree with)
What do you mean I'm "doing it wrong". What itintionaly attracts me to a women is her looks, if I'm not attracted to her then there won't be a relationship.
To a certain extent this is true. A major component of initial attraction is physical.
However, if you go for all the "soulmates" stuff, who says that your perfect match is a perfect 10 looks wise ?
Sometimes we are attracted to people who don't fit our "standards", and if you choose to overlook this, then you are possibly
missing out on a lot.
Then looks do matter to you! It is a contradiction! You're judging a person by how they look, therefore looks matter you. Everybody does it.
Looks matter to everyone but sometimes people overlook these if the person has other factors. I have dated men that didn't appeal to me and sometimes the feelings grew because they were nice.
To a certain extent this is true. A major component of initial attraction is physical.
However, if you go for all the "soulmates" stuff, who says that your perfect match is a perfect 10 looks wise ?
Sometimes we are attracted to people who don't fit our "standards", and if you choose to overlook this, then you are possibly
missing out on a lot.
Exactly this. My current boyfriend is 5'7, caramel colored skin, super short hair. And my "ideal" guy looks wise is quite the opposite. But I am still madly attracted to my boyfriend.
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