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Old 10-21-2012, 10:59 PM
 
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Could it be that you are too much in love with yourself to have a girl friend? You seem to be the kind of person who knows what they want...you might simply not want a girl friend....How about trying to pay attention to some one other than yourself..by the way- nice suit.
His problem is that he doesn't love himself enough. Just look at his post for christ sakes. He's beating himself up.
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Old 10-21-2012, 11:00 PM
 
Location: H-Tine, Texas
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I don't know if you want advice from the men of CD (most of them, anyways). At any rate, take it with a grain of salt.
Cute.
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Old 10-21-2012, 11:00 PM
 
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Well.... are you willing to MAKE time for a girl? Seems that between 50 hrs work week and working out at the gym, you don't really have any time left for other things...or just get to tired to be a fun and having fun.
Do you work weekends too? or just long week days?
I work 5 days a week but my job is only 5 minutes from my house so that gives me some free time there. I'm off Sundays and Fridays

I think I should be able to have plenty of time for a girlfriend.


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Could it be that you are too much in love with yourself to have a girl friend? You seem to be the kind of person who knows what they want...you might simply not want a girl friend....How about trying to pay attention to some one other than yourself..by the way- nice suit.
In love with myself? I just told you I would be willing to pay 5 grand for a girl to go out on a couple dates with me just to give me a chance. How am I in love with myself?
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Old 10-21-2012, 11:01 PM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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I agree with Pextra.
Are you an interesting guy? Do you feel comfortable to talk about things other than work, workout, health and such?
Are you a fun person? Do you have any interests or hobbies? What do you like to do in your spare time?
Do you have any plan what you want to talk about with a girl on your first date? ( you know... no one likes boring or serious people ).
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Old 10-21-2012, 11:01 PM
 
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I tried online dating and got absolutely nowhere...I couldn't even get a response to any of the girls I was messaging
I think an interesting thread would be the entire faction of CD posters (male and female) making your profile on POF and telling you how to respond to ads.

If you want some input, start a thread. Start by putting up a collection of photos and I'll (and probably others) will tell you what to put up and what to write.
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Old 10-21-2012, 11:01 PM
 
Location: Brooklyn, NY
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I really don't see what the problem is lol, you make good money, your pretty good looking and you don't seem shy, maybe you're just approaching the wrong women.
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Old 10-21-2012, 11:03 PM
 
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I agree with Pextra.
Are you an interesting guy? Do you feel comfortable to talk about things other than work, workout, health and such?
Yea I can talk about any subject matter. I was actually born overseas (Armenia) so that helps me easily connect with people of different cultures and backgrounds

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Are you a fun person? Do you have any interests or hobbies? What do you like to do in your spare time?
Videogames
Music - all genres
Movies - all genres
Working Out
Cooking
Sports
TV shows

As far as being a fun person, I think so. All my friends love me dearly
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Old 10-21-2012, 11:06 PM
 
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As far as being a fun person, I think so. All my friends love me dearly
Think about how you made your friends. You probably made them in the most casual way possible. Before you knew it, they were your friends. Girls are very similar, if you let things flow naturally than nature and hormones take over. The problem is your mind is putting up way too many obstacles. The problem with us being so intelligent
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Old 10-21-2012, 11:08 PM
 
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cute.
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Old 10-21-2012, 11:10 PM
 
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I really don't see what the problem is lol, you make good money, your pretty good looking and you don't seem shy, maybe you're just approaching the wrong women.

Yea I'm very grateful for my genetics. I've received many compliments for being handsome in real life...although a lot of them were from homosexuals


I guess the issue is that I put the dating world and women in general on a massive pedestal. I imagine that they all want a guy who makes about 500K a year, is a male model, has a perfect cassanova personality and is perfect beyond belief


I'm very very very harsh on myself
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