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I text her Saturday, saying it was nice meeting you, let's hang out again, let me know when you're free - no response. In the text I made a joke about my jaw hurting cos of kissing
Did you actually type "cos"? What else did you type? Could be the PhD was put off by juvenile text speak and the lame invitation to "hang out" while putting the onus on her to make the plans.
Maybe it's time for you to project a more mature persona.
Please don't listen to some of these guys - I would be offended if a guy thought that because I kissed him on the first date meant I was up for more than that. If a woman lets you score on the first date it probably means she just wanted to hook up, so I don't see that that will keep her keep her coming back for more.
I don't usually expect to kiss a woman the first time I meet her. However, sometimes it happens and I have gone all the way on a few occasions with other women. Usually the woman initiates it...
Please don't listen to some of these guys - I would be offended if a guy thought that because I kissed him on the first date meant I was up for more than that. If a woman lets you score on the first date it probably means she just wanted to hook up, so I don't see that that will keep her keep her coming back for more.
Kiki, what you're failing to grasp is that women who are out to have fun by hooking up don't mind when a man shows sexual interest.
Did you actually type "cos"? What else did you type? Could be the PhD was put off by juvenile text speak and the lame invitation to "hang out" while putting the onus on her to make the plans.
Maybe it's time for you to project a more mature persona.
No, I didn't write "cos"; I have a master's degree & she seriously asked me if i was a genius (I'm not BTW).
I never said "hang out", I said "meet again". I never asked her to make plans, I merely asked about her availability to meet again.
Could be, but she seemed the type to be able take a joke, she was pretty chilled. I didn't mention kissing in the phone call, only the text.
Take a joke, yes but maybe not so much if it about her kissing. But it could be any number of things really. If you feel she genuinely seemed interested, wait a few more days and send her a quick, "Hi, how are you?" text. If there's still no reply then let it go. Something could have come up over the weekend. Sometimes I clear text and voicemail alerts and then a few days later while checking my phone I'll realize I forgot to respond or return a call.
She quite clearly told me that she was looking for LTR, marriage and kids. She was not looking for sex.
Bruh, are serious right now? Just bc a woman is looking for a ltr doesn't mean that she doesn't have sex outside of such a situation. They're not mutually exclusive.
Bruh, are serious right now? Just bc a woman is looking for a ltr doesn't mean that she doesn't have sex outside of such a situation. They're not mutually exclusive.
Agree 100%.
She's probably putting the LTR guy through the 90-day no sex plan and hooking-up/sleeping-around all over town.
Look, you phoned and texted so she has your number. Leave it at that, don't chase her. The ball is now in her court. If she wants to get back to you she will. No point flogging a dead horse as the saying goes.
Alcohol and bars cause some people to do and say stuff they don't really mean.
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