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I met a lady for a drink last Thursday, we had a good time and ended up making out for an hour or so. I got the signals from her so I made the move...We were together for about 5 in hours in total. We were in a secluded little nook in a bar, so nobody could really see what we were up to.
I text her Saturday, saying it was nice meeting you, let's hang out again, let me know when you're free - no response. In the text I made a joke about my jaw hurting cos of kissing (it really did hurt on Friday). She was a bit of a forceful kisser BTW
Called her Sunday, let a message saying the same thing - no response so far.
Ladies, any idea why she's disappeared? Was it my joke about the kissing?
She may have felt that afterwards that she went too far, possibly committed a KWI (Kissing While Under the Influence of alcohol) that she regretted. Assume it's over, unless she eventually responds without further prompting.
You met her just one time, and you spent 5 hours with her ... While she may have seemed great at the time, who knows what she was saying was even true ... People lie all the time.
If she doesn't return your communications there is a reason why ...
She may have felt that afterwards that she went too far, possibly committed a KWI (Kissing While Under the Influence of alcohol) that she regretted. Assume it's over, unless she eventually responds without further prompting.
Hmmm...she was pretty sober - she had only 3 glasses of wine all evening and drove home.
It's a shame if I don't hear from her again, she's super smart and very attractive too. Actually before I met her I went there assuming we weren't gonna click anyway but I thought there's no harm in meeting her.
I don't understand why some people don't get that people play games. OP, you were a fun game to her. She probably hasn't done anything like that in a while & you were willing & able to provide her with some mindless fun. I still find it amazing that you spent 5 hours making out with her & you didn't smash or anything close to it. She may also think that you didn't find her attractive bc you didnt go to the next level. Next time don't spend 5 hours making out & not go further.
Stuff like this is always why I advice that you need to go after sex as soon as possible. Thats the only way to build a "connection" with a young American Woman in this day and age where you could have good meet with her, then never hear from her again. If you had sex with her, she might regret it but at least you got sex, or the oxytocin in her body will create a bond between you two. Take advantage of the fact that the woman's body is built to bond with the men she sleeps with.
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