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I met mine through a mutual friend. Neither of us wanted a relationship and we were really attracted to each other so we thought why not. Somewhere along the way the lines just got really blurry. He would hold my hand, we would go out on "dates" and I really liked him even when we weren't engaging in the benefits part of the relationship. I wanted a relationship and he still didn't so we ended things. I guess FWB works for some people but I learned it doesn't work for me. I get emotionally attached to the people I'm intimate with no matter how hard I try not to.
I've had a few, usually it's me dating the lady, but we don't see ourselves as a couple..but she enjoyed sleeping with me, so she'll come over occasionally for some fun. It peters out after a while
Mine evolved from a friendship to a FWB then back to friendship then to lovers to strangers. Yeah.
Anyway, it evolved really because of the friendship that person and I had. You know those friends that everyone swears is dating even when the two of them are actually in a platonic relationship? That was us until we started getting handsy (and even then it took about a year to get to that point). The other person was actually already used to, and preferred, casual relationships because they're a commitment-phobe and I fell into because I was increasingly curious (and a virgin) and they were the only person I would ever think of engaging in a relationship like that with.
I don't think I would pursue another FWB in the future, though. I have learned that I prefer committed relationships and am prone to catching feelings since I can't have sex without them. It's just safer for me to go all or nothing.
Hey JrzDefector,
Let me clarify 1 thing on the m-ps. No polish, ...well she has thrown on a clear coat if black tie or if I am not paying attention...
Usually it is cut nails, cuticles, buff nails, deep rub sugar onto skin, often an epsom salt soak for feet while she is doing hands, massage and rub with lotion...
(And to confess, she has shaved my entire body with a straight razor when I have fallen asleep while she is trimming up around pookie and the huevos, and I mean chest, stomach, arm pits, thighs, huevos! And I will add that hair is definitely a lubricant! They stick to your leg like glue if they are shaven! )
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No, I am not into 3somes so that ain't going to happen. 
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