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If you mean that "are you going to have sex every time you're horny?" then no, probably. In a relationship you are dealing with another person, so compromise and timing are important. If a guy starts to get frisky the morning of his girlfriend's big presentation at work when she's been stressed out for days and needs to be there early, then he's probably going to get postponed. Meet her at the door with a glass of wine that evening when she gets home and all systems will be go.
TV and movies often present married men as beggers in their relationship, unable to get enough from their wives. When I've been in relationships there has been almost too much sex.
Women not involved are like nuns, but in relationships they are animals.
Of course, i'm single, so i never get any... but even my buddies who have girlfriends don't really get it as much as they want. I am thinking maybe i should just stay single and find a hooker or something. i'm not really interested in constantly getting shot down by a girl i am in a relationship with.
Does it pretty much just suck being a guy, no matter if you are single or in a relationship?
Yes, you should stay single and pay for hookers or something.
I'm not a guy so I dont know if it sucks being a guy. IMO, historically it has been much better to be a guy, especially a white one, than not.
Yea i got no problem satisfying my woman... once i find one. In the rare times when i have been with a girl, i've always made sure she got whatever she wanted
Maybe some of these guys are just expecting the woman to please them, but they aren't taking the time to please her? I don't know but it sounds like that is what you are suggesting.
It's not about "satisfying my woman"; it's about presence. BEING present. Being all IN.
I've said it before and I'll say it again: Foreplay lasts about 8-12 hours. It takes surprisingly little and is amazingly pleasurable. Your brain is your biggest sexual organ, and it's hers too.
You do understand that women are actually human beings and that it is not our responsibility to service men as often as they wish? Right? When you are in a relationship - you might not get to have sex every single time you feel the urge - what if she's not home? What if she's sick? What if her parent just died? But you might have a really good sex life. Likewise - what if she wants to do it but you are the one who is sick? What if you are the one who isn't at home? There is more to life and there is more to a relationship than "getting as much sex as you want."
I think a small percentage of guys (say 10-15%) get as much sex as they want, but the majority of guys don't.
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