Do men and women desire sex equally? (dating, couple, social)

[lpfan921]

I think men have way more interest in sex than women. I don't think it's even close. But some of the women seem to think the desire is equal, and that women get rejected just as much as men.

Any of you ladies care to elaborate and explain your point of view?

[BirdieBelle]

For the one millionth time ...

PEOPLE are different.

Some PEOPLE want sex more than other PEOPLE.

We women at CD cannot answer your question for ALL WOMEN because NOT ALL WOMEN think the same way.

Think harder before you post next time.

[the minx]

I do. Not sure about other women. It's an important component of any relationship, and sometimes non-relationships.

[Amelie90]

I'm a bit "unusual" so I'm only speaking for myself here. I have sexual fantasies a lot and always have, but I don't have a need to actually have sex. I just like to think about it but reality has yet to live up to my fantasies.

[RedZin]

I've only known a couple of men (as in dated them) that could keep up with me.

[dave nz]

Originally Posted by lpfan921

I think men have way more interest in sex than women. I don't think it's even close.

You are meeting / dating, the wrong women

[Philosophizer]

Curious mind would like to inquire about the following...

What conclusions, if any, can be drawn from a woman expressing her strong sex drive online? I'm a guy, obviously. If a girl mentioned these things at a bar/party/other social setting where adults hang out, I can guarantee guys would be approaching her. Personally, it would get my attention too, but I'd be much more subtle with my intentions until I was about to leave.

If I'm talking about sex, I'm thinking about it. And if I'm thinking about it, I'm wanting it. Are women totally wired differently in this respect?

[capitol]

No. Not even close. 95% of women don't truly understand how much the average man desires sex. Women don't think about nearly as much as men.

[lpfan921]

Originally Posted by Wmsn4Life

For the one millionth time ...

PEOPLE are different.

Some PEOPLE want sex more than other PEOPLE.

We women at CD cannot answer your question for ALL WOMEN because NOT ALL WOMEN think the same way.

Think harder before you post next time.

Come on now, what fun is that?

[Djuna]

Originally Posted by lpfan921

Come on now, what fun is that?

It may not be fun but it's the truth. If you can't understand this simple fact then maybe you need to stop posting silliness and start doing some studying, investigating and living real life.