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OP, you know why these men propositioned you. Men want to have sex. You're attractive and maybe they thought that you want to have sex as well. So they figure why not see if she does want to do it. They don't lose anything by asking. As a matter of fact, in today's society they probably have more to gain with so many women being sexually liberated. These men don't know that you're the relationship type. All they know is that if they keep putting it out there some sexually liberated woman is likely to bite.
Fair point! Once again I am reminded of the ridiculousness of Sex & the City, why wouldn't guys take a shot.
No, this is not normal in NYC. I think that the OP has had a run of bad luck with a certain shameless type of guy. Maybe certain guys think that women who just broke up with their boyfriends are vulnerable to this sort of approach?
Maybe the OP will have to stop being friendly and polite to male acquaintances. It's a shame, but there obviously exist guys who aren't able to handle polite social interaction.
No, this is not normal in NYC. I think that the OP has had a run of bad luck with a certain shameless type of guy. Maybe certain guys think that women who just broke up with their boyfriends are vulnerable to this sort of approach?
Maybe the OP will have to stop being friendly and polite to male acquaintances. It's a shame, but there obviously exist guys who aren't able to handle polite social interaction.
I think the OP, according to the OP, would be a great catch, however I would not give a rude woman a chance.
The guy you describe isn't going to get anyone who is stable. I wouldn't take anything he does or says personally or let him rent any space in my head. It sounds as if his emotional development stopped when he was around 22.
So you're saying that in the 21st Century, this is par for the course. It's normal for men to walk up to women they barely know, or have seen on a dating site, and ask for sex.
Really? Why didn't you try that with the two women at your gym you were interested in, if this is such a common practice?
I'm not saying that every man does it. My point is that men who do it do it bc they feel they have nothing to lose bc there are many sexually liberated women in our society. If you don't take a shot you may miss out on something. I don't behave this way but I think that is the thought process of those who do.
This isnt directed at the OP but i dont get the women that go out to bars and then complain about the guys there only looking for sex. I dont think they realize that the majority of guys go to bars/club to get laid, not to find a relationship. If a girl wants to protect herself she'll withhold sex at least until she's determined the integrity of the guy.
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