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Old 11-07-2012, 07:01 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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I would say extreme good looks are the equalizers for women and extreme status/fame are equalizers for men. You can have horrible personality traits and still be successful in both cases


Still, self worth does play a part for average non model folks

I used ANTM as an example. I am talking about average people too, not extremely good looking. Just saying all the crap they claim matters is stuff that doesn't matter at all when you get down to brass tax. It just looks nice on paper.
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Old 11-07-2012, 07:16 PM
 
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I used ANTM as an example. I am talking about average people too, not extremely good looking. Just saying all the crap they claim matters is stuff that doesn't matter at all when you get down to brass tax. It just looks nice on paper.

Self worth and other personality traits are very important for regular women. Are you disputing this?
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Old 11-07-2012, 08:29 PM
 
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Self worth and other personality traits are very important for regular women. Are you disputing this?

Men don't care what kind of personality a woman has. So I guess I am disputing it. Take it or leave it. On here they say all kinds of things are 'of utmost important' -- except that's not how it plays out IRL. So I just say whatever, applies to men in cyber land only I guess.
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Old 11-07-2012, 08:36 PM
 
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Men don't care what kind of personality a woman has. So I guess I am disputing it. Take it or leave it. On here they say all kinds of things are 'of utmost important' -- except that's not how it plays out IRL. So I just say whatever, applies to men in cyber land only I guess.

Well all I can tell you is that most guys look for the best combination of looks and personality so it is definitely very important when it comes to relationships. The only time I really hear my friends say personality doesn't matter is when it comes to random hookups and booty calls


Hell, I enjoy watching porn and I try to avoid knowing or watching anything about the pornstars outside of their scenes because I know I'm going to be very turned off by the way they act and behave, which will make it hard for me to watch their scenes...and that's porn
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Old 11-07-2012, 08:38 PM
 
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Well all I can tell you is that most guys look for the best combination of looks and personality so it is definitely very important when it comes to relationships. The only time I really hear my friends say personality doesn't matter is when it comes to random hookups and booty calls


Hell, I enjoy watching porn and I try to avoid knowing or watching anything about the pornstars outside of their scenes because I know I'm going to be very turned off by the way they act and behave, which will make it hard for me to watch their scenes...and that's porn

Alright, whatever you say.
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Old 11-07-2012, 08:46 PM
 
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Alright, whatever you say.

All I can tell you is that you can read my posts on this site, I am brutally honest with everything I say here


Personality is half the battle for me, and most guys I know, when it comes to a girlfriend. It's just as embarrassing for me to bring home a stupid girl, as it is to bring home an obese one
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Old 11-07-2012, 08:54 PM
 
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All I can tell you is that you can read my posts on this site, I am brutally honest with everything I say here


Personality is half the battle for me, and most guys I know, when it comes to a girlfriend. It's just as embarrassing for me to bring home a stupid girl, as it is to bring home an obese one

well that's your buisness. since when is stupidity akin to being obese? Fat people can lose weight, dumb is forever.

I don't have to read all your posts on the site -- if that's what you say your experiences are then so be it. I'm not saying you're lying, I'm saying I will chalk this one up to yet another guy saying something in cyberspace that has rarely if ever played out the same way in real life from my 32 years of observations. So again, whatever you say is fine with me.
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Old 11-07-2012, 09:00 PM
 
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well that's your buisness. since when is stupidity akin to being obese? Fat people can lose weight, dumb is forever.



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I don't have to read all your posts on the site -- if that's what you say your experiences are then so be it. I'm not saying you're lying, I'm saying I will chalk this one up to yet another guy saying something in cyberspace that has rarely if ever played out the same way in real life from my 32 years of observations. So again, whatever you say is fine with me.


Well, you gotta make sure you're not coming across bitter to the men you meet


Yes, we like a pretty face but we also want a sweetheart who is very lovable
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Old 11-07-2012, 09:03 PM
 
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Well, you gotta make sure you're not coming across bitter to the men you meet


Yes, we like a pretty face but we also want a sweetheart who is very lovable

LMAO. I don't care how I come across to men, you must be new here, but I do not date, period. That's nice I hope you find what you want; some woman that is "sweet and lovable" and over the age of 12, LOL . Personally I don't care what men want, but that's me.
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Old 11-07-2012, 09:07 PM
 
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LMAO. I don't care how I come across to men, you must be new here, but I do not date, period. That's nice I hope you find what you want; some woman that is "sweet and lovable" and over the age of 12, LOL . Personally I don't care what men want, but that's me.


If you don't care about men or dating (which is completely impossible, considering that we are social creatures who need companionship and sex to be mentally healthy), then why take the time to complain about them?
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