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That's what I explained my (adult) stepdaughter (and she finds I'm 100% right) : any day when men are at 10 on the arousal scale, women are at 5 . So it's not to say women feel nothing. Because of biology (body weight is smaller on average, muscular mass smaller, psychology is different,women have an all important deep need to socialize, interact socially, men to act, to "do their thing and damn the consequences, ", even if it makes them socially akward, very different organs are different-men actually need to "jake off " to express it crudely, women have a more diffuse sexuality-, body & soul inconscously geared to maternity, etc). So many things distract women from sexual arousal that's it's actually a feat when they manage to keep up for a very long time with demanding partners. Of course there is the occasional nympho-more rare than urban legend will have it-, but we talk averages here.
By the way I have self respect and I am not going to fight for a man who is emotionally unavailable so I'm not going to throw my body at a man who just doesn't want me I happen to love myself very much and don't want to feel sad from being rejected by men who are just not interested.
Also the man who respects women just does not exist.
Trust me I'm a woman I would know if I was respected.
I have looked after a man who was disabled I worked for free for him I thought he loved me but he didn't love me back he was just using me I later found out that he was calling me ***** behind my back anyway so 5 years of unpaid demanding work and still getting called "*****" there just seems no point in loving a man.
I think now if i'm going to love someone I better just find my twin flame it is more fun and I feel alive instead of being drained by pretentious babies.
Punishing all men for your own mistakes will never get you anywhere.
No, I don't agree. It sounds like yet another "If only I were rich, women would love me" whine--not from you, JBT, but whoever wrote that lame article. Please do link to it, though.
Says me: "You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to JustJulia again"
Love the way they look, feel, sound, act. Money is not a factor.
I agree with the above!!!! The exception for me is money. I don't want a man who is rich but a man who works for a living is real nice!!! Luckily my husband does.
But yeah, I think men are beautiful creatures - and I don't mean creatures in a bad way either. I love that they "generally speaking" have deeper voices and that they are so different than woman in a lot of ways.
As for being interested in a man due to his making other women jealous potential is wakers as far as I am concerned. I'd rather not a have a man so many other women want so that I don't have to carry a baseball bat everywhere with me. I didn't care what my friends thought of my husband when I introduced them to him, I thought he was great and that's all that mattered to me. However if one them would have said, "oh, that man looks like a player to me," then I would be been concerned.
I agree with the above!!!! The exception for me is money. I don't want a man who is rich but a man who works for a living is real nice!!! Luckily my husband does.
But yeah, I think men are beautiful creatures - and I don't mean creatures in a bad way either. I love that they "generally speaking" have deeper voices and that they are so different than woman in a lot of ways.
As for being interested in a man due to his making other women jealous potential is wakers as far as I am concerned. I'd rather not a have a man so many other women want so that I don't have to carry a baseball bat everywhere with me. I didn't care what my friends thought of my husband when I introduced them to him, I thought he was great and that's all that mattered to me. However if one them would have said, "oh, that man looks like a player to me," then I would be been concerned.
There can be exceptions to this.
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