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And what's with this not being married but we are going to get married stuff? I don't have anything against people who choose to live together with out getting married - even if they have children together. Hey - different strokes for different folks. But what I don't understand is people that say they are going to get married, have a child together, and still - don't get married. What's the hold up?
No his photos are private and I have not seen them. We do not live together. And i said we planned to get married so that you guys know that we plan on having a future together.
No his photos are private and I have not seen them. We do not live together. And i said we planned to get married so that you guys know that we plan on having a future together.
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Originally Posted by Boomboom45
We are both 23 might I add.
I see a lot more problems here than not being facebook friends. But that's just me.
So, he doesn't have any kind of acknowledgement of you on Facebook, lied about Instagram, you like to stay home, he likes to go out, blah, blah, blah, and you're both only 23. The 23 part sealed it for me. When other women he meets when out with his friends when you're at home cleaning up baby spit look up his Facebook, they see no mention of a gf. Now think about that.
Oh, by the way... it's been 5 years and a baby... when WILL that future get started?
So, he doesn't have any kind of acknowledgement of you on Facebook, lied about Instagram, you like to stay home, he likes to go out, blah, blah, blah, and you're both only 23. The 23 part sealed it for me. When other women he meets when out with his friends when you're at home cleaning up baby spit look up his Facebook, they see no mention of a gf. Now think about that.
Oh, by the way... it's been 5 years and a baby... when WILL that future get started?
That's exactly what I'm thinking. What bothers me the most is that he puts up pics of him and the baby and none of me like I'm not good enough. The "future will get started" when we can move out together on our own but honestly I am rethinking that and where our relationship stands because of my trust issues.
That's exactly what I'm thinking. What bothers me the most is that he puts up pics of him and the baby and none of me like I'm not good enough. The "future will get started" when we can move out together on our own but honestly I am rethinking that and where our relationship stands because of my trust issues.
YOU don't have trust issues... your doubts are valid, listen to your gut. HE'S the one with the issues in this situation.
After 5 years and a baby together, you're not FB friends?? That's weird. And I would be wary of his Instagram account. Why is it private? There's something on there I bet he doesn't want you to see.
I agree with strawberrykiki, I believe he's definitely hiding something....and it's very telling that he posts pictures of his child, but none of her mom...almost like he wants others to think he's a single parent...THAT would have me thinking all right.
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