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That being said, I remember a gal that I knew when I was the OPs age that went through the same thing. She was attractive, had personality, fun and was a blast to be around, great GF material in my mind. She just jumped into the sack with many of the guys I knew that showed her any interest. Most of the guys were not even nearly attractve as she was. She got black listed as the easy girl.
That will only happen if the group of guys are insecure!
I know plenty of women whom made their rounds amongst a group of guys then became LTR with one of them... no one judged...everyone got what they wanted.
If you were in that group and called HER a ****, then YOU would be a hypocrite!
Wow - reading some of the Op's other posts indicates she's really struggling with depression and I'm certain self esteem problems.
The only thing I can suggest is get back into treatment somehow as already suggested as this path is so self destructive.
No idea if she is reading any of these posts but I will say best of luck to you in the hopes you are.
Nope! That's a FANTASY women cook up! Besides if SHE's into you, SHE won't play games like that anyway!
BS. I personally know plenty of men who waited months to sleep with their girlfriend for the first time. Anyway, why do you believe that a woman who wants to wait before having sex is playing a game?
You have a real problem with that concept lol. Men are getting married later then ever before
Average age 28.5 now. Those "CD stereotypes" are real
I was responding to a post that said, "Ask any young man..." Way too broad a generalization. Not to mention the fact that the 20-something married or in-an-LTR guys I know would be bored witless at either of the events suggested: drag race or baby shower. Women are getting married at a later age than before, as well as men. That doesn't mean that no one is getting married in their 20's. What about the guys who have started threads here saying they're feeling over-the-hill at 28 or 30, because "all" their friends are already married and have babies by mid-to-late 20's? There is so much variety in life; people who have their careers and a marriage together by their 20's, and people who marry in middle age, and everything in-between. Impossible to paint everyone (or everyone in America) with the same brush.
Is this for real? Are you actually wondering why guys use you up and then throw you out? It's because you give all of it up too soon. You don't leave them desiring anything else. Guys don't want to date whores, they use whores for sex, which it sounds like is what you are.
If you want to date a guy, then date him, don't **** him first chance you get.
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