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its pretty simple OP. you wait. You find a guy you like, you dont give it up for the first month or so...
I hate to say this but its probably also the type of guys ur attracted to. if your into the super confident, outgoing guys, they will probably burn you. I'm not saying everyone is like this but u have to realize how guys are in college.
The best way to protect urself is to make the guy wait and judge his character. If you say No and they bolt then u have ur answer.
Actually I agree with her. When you sleep with someone for the first time is no guarantee a person will be there for the long haul. That's why I never agree with women saying I am going to make a guy wait this long before I sleep with him, as if that would guarantee anything. You can make a man wait 90 days, and he could sleep with you and still not call you back. Or you could sleep with him after 9 dates, and you guys are together for years.
Sounds like abandonment issues. People who see themselves as attractive, secure and fun to be around usually don't have to worry about "being alone" Sometimes they struggle just to get some time by themselves so they can get things done. Hopefully the OP lives in an area large enough that she hasn't been "type cast" yet.
Sounds like abandonment issues. People who see themselves as attractive, secure and fun to be around usually don't have to worry about "being alone" Sometimes they struggle just to get some time by themselves so they can get things done. Hopefully the OP lives in an area large enough that she hasn't been "type cast" yet.
On CD posters make it seem as if only virtuous women are relationship material..its the exact opposite in real life. Many men will date, and even marry women who have a reputation for being promiscuous. Being virginal does not always guarantee a LTR or husband..
I have no idea the percentage, but to state that most guys across the board, do not want to settle down in their twenties is false and quite misleading. Many of them are in LTRs just not with the OP.
And you finally decided to settle down at 40, that's all fine and dandy but women have biological clocks and we are not about to wait until our eggs are dried up until a man is finally ready to be a husband
That's just it. - I have never herd a man say their biological clock is ticking.
We believe we are indestructible until our middle age. We don't need to rely on anyone when we are young. We just want to work hard & play hard. Family planning is no where near the top of a young man's list. Ask any young man if he would rather go to a drag race or a baby shower.
That's just it. - I have never herd a man say their biological clock is ticking.
We believe we are indestructible until our middle age. We don't need to rely on anyone when we are young. We just want to work hard & play hard. Family planning is no where near the top of a young man's list. Ask any man if he would rather go to a drag race or a baby shower.
Baby showers are for women
I disagree w/ what you're saying. I've seen plenty of young men in their early 20s in committed relationships. Not all men are interested in staying single and without children well into their 40s. Usually a lot of "is he gay" speculations start to surface around that age...so men are not immune to the pressure to start a traditional family by a certain age
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