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I really don't know if I chose my own sexuality or not.
I must say I'm attracted to men,l like the way they smell,look,feel, but I don't like sex.
I'm not attracted to women.
You don't like sex? So is it hard for you to imagine anyone liking sex since you don't? Is it hard for you to imagine heterosexuals liking sex as well? Why are you so fixated on homosexuals and bisexuals?
So - if you aren't sure if you chose your own sexuality - could you change now and become a lesbian? If not - then you didn't CHOOSE your sexual orientation.
One of my closest friends was a lesbian who became a man and was then bisexual. He is now getting married to a woman. He said that he could see himself with a woman or a man but only as a man. That's how he felt. I love him and I support him no matter what.
Why does this bother you so much?
Does her wife know she is getting a woman?
Not trolling,but when she having sex with men,that means she wasn't gay to begin with
Does her wife know she is getting a woman?
Not trolling,but when she having sex with men,that means she wasn't gay to begin with
Yes - his wife knows everything little thing about him.
You have continually shown that you have absolutely no understanding of human sexuality. Sexual orientation does not change because of who you have had sex with. Sexual orientation is about who you are attracted to. There have been a lot of gay men that have had sex with women even though they are gay. A gay man who has sex with a woman does not become straight. A lesbian who has sex with a man does not become straight. If I had sex with a woman, I would not become gay. I am a straight woman. That means I am attracted to men.
Honestly - I have no idea why you are confused by this.
I actually thought more highly of you than this, Jersey. This is just sad.
Gay, straight, bisexual, transgender, asexual, it's all about how you feel on the inside, not what you do with your body on the outside.
And whenever a lesbian first has sex is when she's no longer a virgin. There are more ways to have sex than insert tab A into slot B. Stop putting so much emphasis on the penis.
And whenever a lesbian first has sex is when she's no longer a virgin. There are more ways to have sex than insert tab A into slot B. Stop putting so much emphasis on the penis.
I always think that when people say that oral sex isn't sex. ? Moderator cut: not pg13
Usually you know who you want to have sex with based on who you're attracted to. I knew I was attracted to guys long before I ever slept with one. So it follows that if I were gay, then I would have been fantasizing about women instead.
I think many are just confused by so many different variations of sexuality, as in Dews example..."Whos on first??" Is it no wonder why so many people are confused? In many Straight people's minds Homosexuality and the likes have no limits.
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Gets better? Who cares?
One of my closest friends was a lesbian who became a man and was then bisexual. He is now getting married to a woman. He said that he could see himself with a woman or a man but only as a man. That's how he felt. I love him and I support him no matter what.
Why does this bother you so much?
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I actually thought more highly of you than this, Jersey. This is just sad. 
