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Sometimes I like to imagine that Onihc's ideal, genderless world looks like one of those 80s movies about the future where everyone wears a silver jumpsuit and has the same androgynous bowl haircut.
But he wants his lady to pull his chair for him. It's bizarre.
In my opinion, it's the little things that make that difference in a relationship. Yes, I could drop the chivalry/gentlemanly actions, and nobody would die. My fiance would not hurt herself opening the car door, and she wouldn't freeze to death if I didn't offer her my coat. BUT, I choose to do those things because I care for her. I don't view her as helpless in any way (quite the contrary, in fact) because of it.
Go back to page #5 and a page before this one. If a woman requires a dick to be that chivalrous with a man then no wonder american women have such a bad rep around the world. It sounds shocking for women to see women treat their man that way, I don't blame them. Not treating a man that way may seem like the norm for some women around here and therefore make fun of those who do enjoy a woman doing all those things for a man and those men enjoy doing those things for their woman.
Those things I have mentioned that me and my girl enjoy with enjoy doing for EACH OTHER.
Some women here just offer their p*ssy in a relationship and think that is what makes them a lady, interesting. Society seems to accept prostitution in certain cases.
I don't treat my husband like a woman, like a lady, like a fair delicate flower that needs to be protected. I treat him according to his needs, which happen to be for a man. And I don't buy this American woman bad rap crap. none of us have had any trouble in relationships and love. I'm sure you are quite familiar with prostitution but don't assume your life and experiences are shared by everyone. I also do not believe for one second that any intelligent, educated, sane woman with her shyte together is going to be pulling the chair for a man that wants to be a woman.
Ladies in the past fulfilled their lady jobs (house chores, cooking, etc.) without complaining or expecting men to chip in. Now many of you will cry sexism but wouldn’t sexism be to expect to be treated better than a man simply because of your gender? Some women around here have even thought that good manners should be left to those who are strong (men). How convenient, eh? I’ve received chivalrous treatment from women (see my post on page #5 and a page before this one) and they didn’t have to be strong to offer that treatment to me. It was quite refreshing to see that even though she was a woman, she still offered me that nice chivalrous treatment.
I think you're confusing things. Being a lady does not equate cooking, cleaning, and raising the kids.
Sometimes I like to imagine that Onihc's ideal, genderless world looks like one of those 80s movies about the future where everyone wears a silver jumpsuit and has the same androgynous bowl haircut.
Almost spit my drink out. Can't rep you or any of the ladies that follow, but that was a side spliter. LOL.
If that was a not so subtle dig at me then you need to know I'm not an American woman. I treat my man like a king and he loves it. I bring a bucketload to the table, a good job, intellect, street smarts, a high sex drive and a love of life. If other guys can't score a cool woman who brings that much to the relationship then too bad.
Actually, a man who scores with a woman that offers a lot and a man accepts it he gets made fun of, considered gay, a dickless man, a fragile man, etc. I just shared an example of the many things my girl does for me, which I do as well, and all of a sudden I get fingers pointed at me. Why? Because it seems to be unusual. People don’t make fun of something that is “normal”, do they? Nobody will make fun of, say, a couple that went for a walk at a park because there is nothing unusual about that. But have me or someone else share the things our girl did for us and look what happens. Hey, unusual or not, WE (“we” as we do that for EACH OTHER) get to enjoy it.
Look, female posters are still making fun of this. I don't blame them.
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But to berate women constantly on a forum is just pathetic.
Both genders get slammed. Only difference is that slamming the male gender seems to be acceptable. Even female posters here tell men to quit their complaining, it’s only a joke, it’s only a game, etc.
Last week my wife and I were playing in a pool tournament at a casino on the Oregon Coast. At one of our daily trips to the coat check, I left my coat on the counter while I assisted my wife with hers. The lady behind the counter commented that it was good to see that some men still knew how to be gentlemen.
Apparently many women believe there is still room in the world for a guy to be gentleman.
Were y'all at the Mill Casino?
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. It sounds shocking for women to see women treat their man that way, I don't blame them. Not treating a man that way may seem like the norm for some women around here and therefore make fun of those who do enjoy a woman doing all those things for a man and those men enjoy doing those things for their woman.
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