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Old 11-14-2012, 11:45 PM
 
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When we first started dating, I would sometimes catch my boyfriend looking at me. He would then act casual and look away or like he's looking at me because we're talking.

It was kind of embarrassing and flattering at the same time. I would then secretly look at myself in the mirror (or anywhere I can see my reflection) to see if I have anything on my face

But now, months into the relationship, he's been more "vulgar." When he's watching TV and I'm doing something else, he would suddenly look at me and stare, until I have to ask him what's wrong. He'd say nothing.

When he's sleeping, I would snuggle next to him, wrap his arms around me... and seconds later I'd realize his snoring has stopped. I would look up at his face and find him looking at me.

This morning, I woke up to see him getting dressed for work. I watched him with half-closed eyes. He was also looking at me. When he was done dressing, he came up to me in bed and stared at me again. His face was so close to mine that it made me conscious.

Of course he'd already brushed and bathed, while I lay in bed with mussed hair, no make up and possibly rheum in my eyes... I covered his eyes with my hand. He removed my hands and held them in his. I asked him what's wrong and he said, "I just wanna look at you. You know I always look at you."

And the way he was doing so, I seriously thought he would get undressed again. LOL But then he kissed me and told me to go back to sleep...

Just couldn't keep the incident from my mind, I just had to share it

I wonder what really goes on in a man's mind when he's looking at his woman?
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Old 11-14-2012, 11:52 PM
 
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Probably the football scores, or, will she give me a bj tonight?
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Old 11-14-2012, 11:58 PM
 
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Probably the football scores, or, will she give me a bj tonight?
LOL! That is so mean... If it's the second, next time he stares at me I might just unzip his pants right then and there. But seriously, I usually just sit back a bit and he advances like a cat on the prowl. Well you know what comes next
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Old 11-15-2012, 12:02 AM
 
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He's thinking about the relationship. he has this image in his mind about it..he's happy. Take it for face value. its a good thing
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Old 11-15-2012, 12:04 AM
 
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Probably the football scores, or, will she give me a bj tonight?

Your answer doesnt suprise me..directly proportionate to your brain size..You can have your perception about men in general..but youre so WRONG..shaking my head
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Old 11-15-2012, 12:07 AM
 
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I'm trying to figure out what the "vulgar" part is while he is watching television.
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Old 11-15-2012, 12:15 AM
 
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I'm trying to figure out what the "vulgar" part is while he is watching television.
Oh I just meant that he doesn't "hide" looking at me like he did when we were a new couple. He used to look away when I would catch him staring at me. Now, he doesn't even pretend that he just "happened" to look at me. He stares even harder and comes closer when I stare back...

It makes me blush that I'm the one who looks away now or I cover his eyes!
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Old 11-15-2012, 12:16 AM
 
Location: NJ
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When we first started dating, I would sometimes catch my boyfriend looking at me. He would then act casual and look away or like he's looking at me because we're talking.

It was kind of embarrassing and flattering at the same time.
100% flattering is my hunch. He sounds deeply into you.

Years ago, I found myself doing the same with a now, unfortunately deceased SO's eyes. It was first at a NYC Italian restaurant, and it went on for several minutes, as I have never seen such beautiful colors. She realized it and I did tell her what was going on, and I could tell at first she was somewhat uncomfortable, but quickly realized it was 110% flattering.
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Old 11-15-2012, 12:17 AM
 
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He's thinking about the relationship. he has this image in his mind about it..he's happy. Take it for face value. its a good thing

this is usually it for me. although it really depends on my mood at "that moment" sometimes i look at her and realize just how attracted i still am to her (not sexually, just in general...its been 10 years and i still find her great looking), sometimes im taking note of how shes done her hair that day, whats shes wearing etc etc, sometimes im just watching her do daily activities because she still intrigues me as a person. if i happen to be in a spunky mood, well...im usually checking her fantastic ass out

there is no one point of looking at my wife on not being shy about. it just a general interest in the women i married drawing me to do so
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Old 11-15-2012, 12:19 AM
 
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Oh I just meant that he doesn't "hide" looking at me like he did when we were a new couple. He used to look away when I would catch him staring at me. Now, he doesn't even pretend that he just "happened" to look at me. He stares even harder and comes closer when I stare back...

It makes me blush that I'm the one who looks away now or I cover his eyes!

That is just creepy to be so intense when looking at you and being that close. My husband looks at me all the time but it isn't creepy and just reading your description of how he looks at you now gave me the creeps.
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