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Do not quit your job and move your daughter away from her father, home and school friends to chase after some guy 1000 miles away you have only met 4 times.
Sometimes it just amazes me what I have to type out.
Tucson is a horrible economy full of bizarre people. You will hate it here it here even more if your relationship doens't work out and its hard to say when you've only seen him a few times in the past few years.
If you have any questions about this place, feel free to DM me. Been living here 19 years only cause my father dragged us here when we were kids lol so I know a lot about this city.
Actually, in her other thread, the OP was looking at Phoenix area, not Tucson.
Do not quit your job and move your daughter away from her father, home and school friends to chase after some guy 1000 miles away you have only met 4 times.
Sometimes it just amazes me what I have to type out.
Amen. It boggles my mind that a parent needs to be reminded she's no longer the center of the universe. Her hormonal urges and teenage-like angst are (or should be) a lower priority than the wellbeing of her daughter. She's still going back and forth with the baby daddy and has only seen her long distance fantasy prince four times in the past three years. Time to put on the big girl panties and use the brain God gave her.
1) If you've never been here for more than a day in the hottest part of the summer, YOU NEED TO DO THAT before you move here. Hating the cold is one thing, but Arizona is killer HOT in the summer. Tucson is a little cooler than where I live, but it's still hot. You need to take a vacation here for a couple of weeks during July or August and see what exactly you're getting into.
2) Your daughter will not thank you if you move her away from her dad and friends to someplace that, to her, will be totally foreign. It's a whole lot different here than it is where you're from. A WHOLE LOT.
3) Like Kimballette said, if you've only seen the guy four times in the past three years, you need to think about that. Especially, if you have plans to move here...sight unseen, I'm guessing. You don't have any idea what you might be getting into here.
Meh, I don't exactly know why I replied to this - she appears to have "possibilities" in other states and probably won't be back to check on this thread.
First, you just can't stay where you're at and NOT be coupled with daughter's father if you're so darn unhappy with him? What's the problem, afraid of not having a guaranteed Saturday night date?
Second... you've only seen your faux prince charming 4 times in 3 years???? And you're considering moving your daughter for that? And your family thinks you should do it??? OMG... no wonder you're considering another bad decision.
Just stay where you're at and let your daughter stay close to her dad.
Do not ever and I mean never move to a new state for a man you do not know really really well. It be different if you came from the same state as a couple that's been together awhile etc. don't be one of those pathetic online women who always go to the man. If he wants to be with you so bad then he needs to relocate to where you are and get his own place. So easy to get yourself in a very bad situation . Be smart.
This thread is 2 years old; I imagine there has been some changes since then.
I am sure she already moved to Phoenix, found out what a crazy ideal that was and is settled back home already.
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No No and No!!!
