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There is no way I would ever give a SO my bank account info or FB account. I wouldn't even give my husband that stuff (if I had one). We can share a bank account, but the account that's just mine is mine. He doesn't need to know what's in there.
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Maybe marriage isn't for you.
Op, I don't know about time. It depends on how close you are.
Did you offer b/c you wanted her to know or as a way to reciprocate the fact that she revealed her personal information to you? I personally wouldn't reveal this information at this point, so I certainly don't recommend that you do it.
I asked her once if she wanted mine at some point I can't remember who asked who first to be honest. She was the first to offer her bank account info but only because she was asking me to check her account so she woundn't be late for work. Sure it showed that she trusted me with this info but I don't think she was trying to show that she trusted me as it was she just needed to know what was in her bank account. Yet she could of called her mom or someone if she wanted too.
Your relationship IS new. Make no mistake about it. Giving passwords out is really not something you should do at this point. It takes time to get to know each other, no matter how much you like each other right now. If she or you want to show each other your accounts, that's one thing, but giving passwords and full access is another.
At this point in time, you should be sharing your hearts (which is hard enough when you have trust issues) not your passwords. One thing at a time. Later you can and should do more if that works out.
Like I posted above I have offered to give her my passwords to anything she wants, & she keeps saying she ok & that she does trust me. We been together for almost 7 months now. Part of me felt uneasy because no one has been so honest with me before. Like I said I'm not used to it so I'm not sure how to deal or how I should feel with someone being so honest. Don't get me wrong I want her to be honest just is an odd feeling for me is all.
Your relationship IS new. Make no mistake about it. Giving passwords out is really not something you should do at this point. It takes time to get to know each other, no matter how much you like each other right now. If she or you want to show each other your accounts, that's one thing, but giving passwords and full access is another.
At this point in time, you should be sharing your hearts (which is hard enough when you have trust issues) not your passwords. One thing at a time. Later you can and should do more if that works out.
It's not like I wrote it down or anything I just went to the site & logged in for her & told her what she wanted to know. Then I logged out & that was it. The biggest thing I gave to her was my password to my computer. Which has my password all logged into any place fourm I go to. I'm not a fan of banks so that's not a problem. I need an account just don't like them is all.
It's not like I wrote it down or anything I just went to the site & logged in for her & told her what she wanted to know. Then I logged out & that was it. The biggest thing I gave to her was my password to my computer. Which has my password all logged into any place fourm I go to. I'm not a fan of banks so that's not a problem. I need an account just don't like them is all.
Great. It sounds like you have nothing to worry about and neither does she.
So, be happy.
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