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Old 10-10-2016, 06:27 PM
 
Location: Queens, NY
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Easy to figure who belongs where. Guys who get angry and bitter because they can't get any action with women are the guys who belong in the MGTOW movement.
Agreed.

I also think there's a difference between being "frustrated" and "angry/bitter". I think the former is fine and perfectly normal, but not the latter.

 
Old 10-10-2016, 06:35 PM
 
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Acting like someone you're not solves nothing in regards to dating issues. The truth of the matter is either you are attractive to women or you are not.
Oh, well, if that is the case, then it doesn't matter how the guy acts. He can be altruistic towards women or selfish and a total jerk. That would mean that nice, supplicating men with no confidence who are naturally attractive to women would have no more problems than more assertive guys, which definitely could be true.

If that is the case, I guess he can forget about acting like his friend. It won't matter if he is just genetically unattractive to women, which many guys are.

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Old 10-10-2016, 06:46 PM
 
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Acting like someone you're not solves nothing in regards to dating issues. The truth of the matter is either you are attractive to women or you are not.
That''s just defeatist, providing a ready excuse not to try.

Dating is as much about confidence and attitude as anything else. No, your not going to pull a supermodel just by being confident, but if you are genuinely interested in a girl and you show it with confidence and style you will never run out of dates.
 
Old 10-10-2016, 06:49 PM
 
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That''s just defeatist, providing a ready excuse not to try.

Dating is as much about confidence and attitude as anything else. No, your not going to pull a supermodel just by being confident, but if you are genuinely interested in a girl and you show it with confidence and style you will never run out of dates.
Some guys are just genetically repulsive to women. Not much they can do about it, even if they did change their attitudes.

Besides, it's hard to maintain a positive attitude when your whole genetic makeup is against you. It's like trying to think you can play in the NBA when you are only 4 foot 6 inches tall.
 
Old 10-10-2016, 06:53 PM
 
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Some guys are just genetically repulsive to women. Not much they can do about it, even if they did change their attitudes.

Besides, it's hard to maintain a positive attitude when your whole genetic makeup is against you. It's like trying to think you can play in the NBA when you are only 4 foot 6 inches tall.
exactly...so its why I dont blame them at all if they become angry and bitter.

some people...and not just guys..are just like you said,genetically replusive to the opposite sex through no fault of their own necessarily.
 
Old 10-10-2016, 06:57 PM
 
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exactly...so its why I dont blame them at all if they become angry and bitter.

some people...and not just guys..are just like you said,genetically replusive to the opposite sex through no fault of their own necessarily.
But why become angry and bitter over something you can't control? Should the people who were born deaf or blind be angry because they were born that way? Should someone who is short be angry and bitter because his genetics caused him to be short?

A guy who gets angry and bitter over this seems like a guy who is just being angry and bitter at himself, since it is his own genetics that is causing this.
 
Old 10-10-2016, 08:37 PM
 
Location: NW Indiana
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