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I've been judged on my looks a lot. I've been told that I'm cute, pretty, beautiful & even gorgeous. Even once or maybe twice had a guy say that i was the 'prettiest girl he had ever seen'.
Still, I am totally confused about how I should feel about my appearance. I get very emotional and don't know if I am just average or beautiful or what.
There have been situations where a group of guys at work or even male friends debated my level of hotness. Yes, it turned into some type of electoral debate on whether I was hot or just okay looking.
I've even had guys argue my level of attractiveness right in front of me, as if I were not even a real person, just an object with no feelings whatsoever. I walked into the break room at work and this guy said to his friend "Yeah, that's the girl i was telling you about. She look good doesn't she?"
His friend, "Uh she aiight."
Guy replies, "Aiight. You think SHE is aiight. She fine as hell"
"Uh, she's okay to me. She just has nice hair."
"Whatever man. She look good as hell."
I witnessed the entire thing. It really hurt me and it took me a very long time to get over this. I can't let other people's opinion of how I look define who I am. But geesh, people can be so insensitive. It would have been nice if they waited until I left the room to have this little debate. Ignorance is bliss.
Still, I don't know what to think of how I look. It's clear I am not ugly but I don't know if I am really pretty/beautiful or just average. I've had so many different opinions that I'm left confused.
I've been judged on my looks a lot. I've been told that I'm cute, pretty, beautiful & even gorgeous. Even once or maybe twice had a guy say that i was the 'prettiest girl he had ever seen'.
Still, I am totally confused about how I should feel about my appearance. I get very emotional and don't know if I am just average or beautiful or what.
There have been situations where a group of guys at work or even male friends debated my level of hotness. Yes, it turned into some type of electoral debate on whether I was hot or just okay looking.
I've even had guys argue my level of attractiveness right in front of me, as if I were not even a real person, just an object with no feelings whatsoever. I walked into the break room at work and this guy said to his friend "Yeah, that's the girl i was telling you about. She look good doesn't she?"
His friend, "Uh she aiight."
Guy replies, "Aiight. You think SHE is aiight. She fine as hell"
"Uh, she's okay to me. She just has nice hair."
"Whatever man. She look good as hell."
I witnessed the entire thing. It really hurt me and it took me a very long time to get over this. I can't let other people's opinion of how I look define who I am. But geesh, people can be so insensitive. It would have been nice if they waited until I left the room to have this little debate. Ignorance is bliss.
Still, I don't know what to think of how I look. It's clear I am not ugly but I don't know if I am really pretty/beautiful or just average. I've had so many different opinions that I'm left confused.
LOL why would something like that bother you?
1) They're random people
2) They agreed that you look hot
It should have been one of those "okay, that's weird, but it just happened" moments...and then you forget all about it.
1) They're random people
2) They agreed that you look hot
It should have been one of those "okay, that's weird, but it just happened" moments...and then you forget all about it.
No, they did not agree I was hot. One guy thought i was just 'okay looking' or 'average' while the other thought I was 'beautiful'.
I've even had guy friends randomly tell me their opinion of how i look without me asking. One in a particular told me, "If I saw you in a club I'd think you were an attractive woman. But you're nothing to holler and make a big deal about." Like the wtf does that mean?? Then there were other times he'd tell me I was beautiful which confused me even more.
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