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View Poll Results: Sex...when is it the right time?
The first date 10 17.86%
After 2-4 dates 16 28.57%
After 5-9 dates 7 12.50%
After 10+ dates 8 14.29%
After marriage 15 26.79%
Voters: 56. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 11-28-2012, 08:52 PM
 
Location: Sometimes Miami sometimes Australia
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Today is a slow and boring day at work, so now would be a good time for me
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Old 11-28-2012, 08:58 PM
 
Location: Lost in Montana *recalculating*...
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When is it the right time to jump into bed after starting to date someone?
About an hour after you pop a Viagra.
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Old 11-28-2012, 08:59 PM
 
Location: Pa
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The best kind -- none.

And yea, I was serious. they DO push for sex, even I have experienced this with limited experience, pretty sure I'm not the only woman. And Raena I don't know why you're trying to say they wouldn't drop that woman like a hot potato if things are not moving along at a steady pace, there's been threads/posts on here that state exactly that. Low & behold it mirrors real life. Who would've thunk it?
I don't doubt you Doll baby, had one guy do that to me. But I dated a few men. They aren't all sex fienes. Ony guy in my 20's didn't take any sexual advances. I thought he wasn't interested. But he called me after that date for more dates.
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Old 11-28-2012, 09:05 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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I don't doubt you Doll baby, had one guy do that to me. But I dated a few men. They aren't all sex fienes. Ony guy in my 20's didn't take any sexual advances. I thought he wasn't interested. But he called me after that date for more dates.

Okay raena if that's your experience then fine. As usual I cannot relate. They only ever seemed interested in getting laid and the sooner the better or had no interest at all. If they're not all sex fiends news to me, sure seems like it.
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Old 11-28-2012, 09:11 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Okay raena if that's your experience then fine. As usual I cannot relate. They only ever seemed interested in getting laid and the sooner the better or had no interest at all. If they're not all sex fiends news to me, sure seems like it.
Some pretend to be. And they are actually sweet.
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Old 11-28-2012, 09:14 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Some pretend to be. And they are actually sweet.

pretend to be what? sex fiends? That's not a pretend thing.....and I don't know how you figure that's 'sweet,' I don't find anything about it to be endearing. But let me tell you and I know first hand, if they figure out they are not getting sex in a timely manner -- see how quick they lose all interest in you. Try it. That's why I do not beleive any of the men on here when they claim they are 'really into some woman's personality.' GET REAL.
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Old 11-28-2012, 09:14 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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Depends how heavy you both are and the quality of the bed. Some beds aren't too good at coping with people jumping into them.
I would say this sums up everything
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Old 11-28-2012, 09:17 PM
 
Location: Central California
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I like the second or third date for sex (after that is pushing it a little bit...I may lose interest).

I also like when a girl turns me down on the first date (I always try, of course).
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Old 11-28-2012, 09:20 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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I like the second or third date for sex (after that is pushing it a little bit...I may lose interest).

I also like when a girl turns me down on the first date (I always try, of course).

I wouldn't mind waiting more than 3 dates for a girl that I like.. but I'd be making sure she was really in to me and I wasn't getting played. Some girls won't sleep with you too early, and that's not always a bad thing depending on what you're looking for.

That being said, I go for it every first date, and majority of women are women who I don't want anything serious with.
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Old 11-28-2012, 09:22 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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I wouldn't mind waiting more than 3 dates for a girl that I like.. but I'd be making sure she was really in to me and I wasn't getting played. Some girls won't sleep with you too early, and that's not always a bad thing depending on what you're looking for.

That being said, I go for it every first date, and majority of women are women who I don't want anything serious with.

Why would you be pushing a woman that you don't even know from a can of paint for sex like she's a freaking hooker?
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