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OP you only have yourself to blame, you made the decision to sleep with them.
It takes two the tango and two willing parties.
Sex has nothing to do with it. They didn't turn around and marry someone else because that girl didn't jump into bed, they married someone else because they fell in love. Devoted relationships can come from waiting to have sex for years or from having sex in the first 15 minutes of knowing each other. Claiming that you're alone at 40 because you always gave it up on the third date is ignorant BS and she knows it but its easier to blame some past mistake than to face the cold hard fact that there's something innately disagreeable about her.
I'll keep searching for men around my age that are never married and childless. They exist and I will wait for one.
You're right that they do exist. There are even childless and never married men around your age who are physically fit, have a good job and house, and who are not just looking for sex. I am one of those men.
Well here is your real problem, why you have never been married. You refuse to settle. Sorry to be the one to break it to you, but it must be done: no one ever gets every thing he or she wants in a relationship; settling is a very important part of how a relationship functions.
I agree that there are some things we should compromise and "settle" with, but there are also some non-negotiable traits that every individual should stick to and not settle for less.
You're right that they do exist. There are even childless and never married men around your age who are physically fit, have a good job and house, and who are not just looking for sex. I am one of those men.
She's looking for a monogamous Catholic, as well. eta. I bet there are Catholic dating sites.
When I was younger I often slept with a guy early on thinking it was a relationship. It wasn't, he just wanted sex. Meanwhile I saw many of these men marry other women. I am 41 and will probably be single the rest of my life because I didn't realize these losers only saw me as a piece of meat. Next man who tries to get sex from me will get what he deserves and it won't be pretty.
You sound very bitter. Are you sure it is the men who were the losers? Don't forget, you had a hand in these situations too, you weren't sleeping through them, so that makes it as much your fault as their fault. Probably none of these guys would have "taken advantage of you" if you wouldn't have been willing. Hopefully the next guy will see you for who you are and you won't get a chance to do whatever it is you plan on doing...
When I was younger I often slept with a guy early on thinking it was a relationship. It wasn't, he just wanted sex. Meanwhile I saw many of these men marry other women. I am 41 and will probably be single the rest of my life because I didn't realize these losers only saw me as a piece of meat. Next man who tries to get sex from me will get what he deserves and it won't be pretty.
Maybe you were to easy !! guys like it when they so no REALLY!!!
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Don't end up like me, don't sleep with them
