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If this has already been done to death, please accept my apologies.
I hear men complain a lot about how they cannot find anyone to date. I have a feeling this may be because they are focused on a very narrow spectrum of women. Basically, a lot of these men will only consider women who are extremely good-looking. They often look right past the women they know who are charming, funny, warm, sweet and interesting, but more ordinary looking. Is this often the case?
Most young women in America want jerks/bad boys and rich guys.
It's really that simple.
Most young women in America want the guys that all the females want which is about 10-20 percent of men.
The few young women who don't want jerks or bad boys get married really early.
A guy who is in shape should get a girl who has a hot bod. That's only fair
Depends on what you mean by a guy in shape. All too often men think they are in shape when they are not. Now if you are talking a man who works out wanting a woman like that then sure that is fair. I'm not fat so I don't want a fat man myself.
Most young women in America want jerks/bad boys and rich guys.
It's really that simple.
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Originally Posted by Ruth4Truth
If these are the women you keep running into, you're moving in the wrong circles.
If the guys you mentioned that can’t bring themselves to speak to women and think they deserve a hottie are all the guys you keep running into, then you are moving in the wrong circle too.
The guy who can't bring himself to speak to women thinks he deserves a hottie. I guess that's about right for C-D.
Unfortunately almost every guy online thinks he deserves a hottie, even guys lacking in hotness. Then they wonder why they are single years later and no women want them.
If this has already been done to death, please accept my apologies.
I hear men complain a lot about how they cannot find anyone to date. I have a feeling this may be because they are focused on a very narrow spectrum of women. Basically, a lot of these men will only consider women who are extremely good-looking. They often look right past the women they know who are charming, funny, warm, sweet and interesting, but more ordinary looking. Is this often the case?
My brother, who is 29, has forever complained that he cannot meet eligible women. He has the type of job where he does not work with any eligible women. He doesn't particularly like to go to singles bars, and he isn't much of a church-goer, so I can see where the possibilities do get pretty thin. Not long ago he told me that he could go a month without even speaking to a single woman between the ages of 20-35. I think it might actually take a concerted effort for some guys to find single women, depending on their circumstances. Online dating exists for a reason.
Brahmabull, your sister reminds me a little of my cousin who is stunning with her Italian/English/Mexican heritage. But like your sister, there are going to be guys who think "meh, she's alright but I've seen better" for no other reason than they prefer something different. That's the beauty of this-we aren't all attracted to the same thing.
Your picture isn't in your profile so I don't know for sure what you look like. Yeah, Mario Lopez is a good looking guy with those dimples but he also reminds me of one of my cousins (from the other side of the family-I have some really good looking cousins) so dating someone who looked like that would be a bit creepy. Plus, while I appreciate the effort that goes into 6-pack abs, I like someone a little softer. So while you might be attractive, chances are you would be someone I'm not attracted to, if that makes sense.
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