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Old 12-03-2012, 03:11 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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That was not a whine. It was an observation. Lol.
We're not convinced.
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Old 12-03-2012, 03:13 PM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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I'm a connoisseur of whine, Jobaba, being a long time grower, harvester and producer myself, so I'm not convinced either.
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Old 12-03-2012, 03:17 PM
 
Location: CT
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How old is your mother, by the way, and how religious is she? Wonder what she would have thought about the braless look of 30 or so years ago? Damn, I miss the good old days.
She's 54, pretty religious.
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Old 12-03-2012, 03:19 PM
 
Location: CT
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I haven't heard that phrase about women used in decades.
Really? My dad uses the term "fast".
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Old 12-03-2012, 03:19 PM
 
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We're not convinced.
In fairness and contrast, about 10 years ago I fell for a female friend who rejected me and admitted to me she was attracted to one of my friends. She didn't go for him and didn't date anybody else for about a year. Not on purpose. She was just picky, not 'easy'. It ended up being a lot easier on my feelings.

Look. This kind of stuff happens. We really can't control it. But it sucks worse if the woman is open to dating while the wound is still fresh. That's all.

Observation.
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Old 12-03-2012, 03:24 PM
 
Location: On the Chesapeake
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She's 54, pretty religious.

She's 4 years younger than me. So she did come up through the braless 70's and early 80's.
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Old 12-03-2012, 03:30 PM
 
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I don't think it makes a person easy, in and of itself. It's how the person acts that makes her easy.
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Old 12-03-2012, 03:31 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I think girls with short skirts make looking at their thighs easy.
OP, you definitely need to do the "bend over" test, the "sit-down" test and the "walking up the stairs" test before you wear a short skirt, especially at your height. Your height does make a difference in how short the skirt actually is, tights or no tights.

I see girls your age ALL THE TIME wearing short skirts who don't know how much they're showing off.

To be clear, women are (should be) allowed to wear what they want, and girls should not be sl*t-shamed if they're wearing short skirts. But there are many, many girls your age and younger who wear stuff they look ridiculous in, like 13-year-olds in stilettos they can't walk in. There's a difference in "easy" short skirts and "stylish" short skirts. But your mom may not make that distinction.

I know where your mom is coming from, and i understand your desire to dress "cute.". My own mom wouldn't let me wear dangly earrings because she thought they looked slutty. I advise you to not get offended and choose your clothes to flatter you everywhere.
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Old 12-03-2012, 03:37 PM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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When I see a woman/girl going the whole 9 yards eg. heals, short skirt, showing cleavage, it doesn't so much make me think she's easy (possibly a little). Its more she's asking for male attention and to be hit on and she's probably sl**ty.
Obviously not so applicable to the short skirt alone!
I do often find skirts on women sexy.

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Old 12-03-2012, 03:38 PM
 
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Today, I wore a sweater dress and a pair of tights. I'm a tall girl (5'9) so the dress stopped at mid thigh. I personally didn't mind this , and thought I looked my age and cute. I came home, my mother saw what I had on. She said I looked "easy" and was not pleased.



I'm 18, I'm not gonna get into the whole "I can wear whatever I want, I'M GROWN!" argument.

So le question is: Do you think short skirts/dresses make someone come off as easy? Yes? No? I don't think so because the "easiest" girls I ever "knew" wore very casual clothes, only worse skirts/dresses on formal occasions.
I don't know if short skirts make someone come off as easy, but they certainly comer off easier.
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