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Hmm, I actually feel the same way as she does. I will offer, but if he accepts, it tells me something about him. I've found that those men are often from the "women want to be treated equal, so I'll treat them like a man" tribe.
However, I don't see it as a test so much as a preference.
I just treat people like people. With that said I have found that women who expect you to pay for dates tend to expect other non-reciprocal material benefits and that becomes what the relationship is about on my end. I don't want to be in that kind of relationship.
Here is another situation, also based loosely on fact:
Man and woman meet, hang out for a month. Things start to get romantic after week two with some kissing and snuggling but nothing sexual until week four. Man breaks off relationship after week four, stating that he cannot take the relationship seriously because they were too intimate too quickly and it says something about the woman's character. Woman says that she had no idea they were going "too quickly" as it was the man who was the initiator in the intimate situation.
In this scenario, was the test valid? What do you think of this?
I don't know any man that would do something so stupid. Where do you meet these morons?
Hmm, I actually feel the same way as she does. I will offer, but if he accepts, it tells me something about him. I've found that those men are often from the "women want to be treated equal, so I'll treat them like a man" tribe.
However, I don't see it as a test so much as a preference.
Yes. Exactly. No sense in wasting unnecessary time when you don't have to.
I just treat people like people. With that said I have found that women who expect you to pay for dates tend to expect other non-reciprocal material benefits and that becomes what the relationship is about on my end. I don't want to be in that kind of relationship.
I'm sure we've both missed out on nice people because of our preference. That's life.
Women and men test each other out all the time. Let's be real. Op your example of the woman testing for initiative was dumb. Yet it proves and gives the assumption she is nuts and he should of left.
Women and men test each other out all the time. Let's be real. Op your example of the woman testing for initiative was dumb. Yet it proves and gives the assumption she is nuts and he should of left.
If I test anybody I will be sure to bring a scan tron a number 2 pencil and a timer to make sure both parties know their is testing going on.
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