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Old 12-06-2012, 10:15 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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It just gets to the point when I get fed up because it seems like I can never have a conservation with a woman without feeling that I;m being secretly evaluated. Damm, can we just talk and have a nice conversation?
In your strange world a nice conversation does not involve anyone asking any questions to get to know a person? And aren't you constantly and openly evaluating these poor women? They're not wearing the right shoes. They don't contact you in the manner that you've secretly decided is the right way. They don't call exactly when you want them to and say exactly what you want them to say. Sounds like a test to me.
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Old 12-06-2012, 10:15 AM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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TV, is this your date from Saturday night? Are y'all still talking? Why are you creating problems where there are none, if you want to keep seeing her? Unless you don't...

No this is someone new who I will be meeting next week
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Old 12-06-2012, 10:16 AM
 
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It just gets to the point when I get fed up because it seems like I can never have a conservation with a woman without feeling that I;m being secretly evaluated. Damm, can we just talk and have a nice conversation?


This never happen in the fetish world, which is why i miss it so much
(I'm probably going to kick myself for asking, but) What sort of conversation would you prefer?
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Old 12-06-2012, 10:17 AM
 
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I think the OP just needs to sit down and write scripts for the women he dates or hopes to date.
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Old 12-06-2012, 10:18 AM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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No one is secretly evaluating you, unless you think getting to know someone is an interrogation.


And the fetish world huh??? LMAO!!!!!

When it feels like an interrogation I get the secret evaluation feel. You can't get to know me without drilling me with tons of questions.


And yes the fetish world is so much more relaxing and stress free since no one judges you.
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Old 12-06-2012, 10:18 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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I think the OP just needs to sit down and write scripts for the women he dates or hopes to date.
Mostly he needs to get on the waiting list for lpfan's sex robot. That'll surely be a punishment for all women.
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Old 12-06-2012, 10:19 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Mostly he needs to get on the waiting list for lpfan's sex robot. That'll surely be a punishment for all women.
Bwahahahahahahaha!!!
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Old 12-06-2012, 10:19 AM
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In your strange world a nice conversation does not involve anyone asking any questions to get to know a person? And aren't you constantly and openly evaluating these poor women? They're not wearing the right shoes. They don't contact you in the manner that you've secretly decided is the right way. They don't call exactly when you want them to and say exactly what you want them to say. Sounds like a test to me.

For example, if I ask a woman what field she works in I don't need to follow up with the other questions below like most women do

"Do you like your job?"

"Where do you work?"


HUH??? That's information I don't need
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Old 12-06-2012, 10:22 AM
 
Location: Des Moines IA
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When it feels like an interrogation I get the secret evaluation feel. You can't get to know me without drilling me with tons of questions.


And yes the fetish world is so much more relaxing and stress free since no one judges you.

Again, how do you get to know someone without asking questions? Don't you ask her questions? How the heck do you talk to someone you don't know without asking questions? If you don't want people to know anything about you, then why are you trying to meet new people?


And I don't know why but something tells me your idea of a fetish is so much more different than anyone else's idea of a fetish, but that's a whole other topic
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Old 12-06-2012, 10:22 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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For example, if I ask a woman what field she works in I don't need to follow up with the other questions below like most women do

"Do you like your job?"

"Where do you work?"


HUH??? That's information I don't need
Um... So... You don't really want to get to know these women - is that what you are saying? What exactly do you want from them? How would YOU like the conversation to go?

TV: I just ate dinner. Pasta with sausage.
Her: Oh.
TV: What do you do for a living?
Her: I'm a teacher.
TV:Oh.

Sounds AMAZING!
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