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Is'nt true that we all desire something that we don't have? For instance a man desires a woman with large breast even if his is caved in, or a leg man loves women who have shapely legs and (most) men want women with "lady parts". This hold true with homesexuals as well. how often do you see a same sex couple that have the same charateristics? Effeminate men with mascueline men and the same with women. I will not profess on being an expert on this but what are your thoughts on it?
Well I would expect you do. Most women--despite what they say--do!
Actually no we don't. And I really wish some men would stop obsessing over paynees size. Most women do not want to deal with a horse sized wang every night.
A guy self aware isn't going to cry " would love me if I had a bic lighter?" "you only love me for my pretty di"
" only the women who like rocker musicians like me why can't women be less shallow and the women who like clean cut wall street guys like me to?"
"I am a rocker but I am only going respond to women who want a clean cut business guy"
yeah alrighty then...
Here is a novel idea, if I wanted to attract women into clean cut business guys I'd cut my hair and wear a suit. If busty women don't want to attract boob men get a reduction.
But I don't know about you but I like being "different".
As far as skin color getting back on topic, most people have to accept themselves unless you are Michael Jackson.
Girl what? I hope you are just kidding. Anyways does anyone else see the hypocrisy in this thread?
No, not kidding. A year in my past dating life you would be amazed at what I've encountered on this journey. Just today, I had a conversation with a guy that is specifically on the hunt to fulfill a long time fantasy to be with a black woman. I was intrigued by his ad, because he didn't sound to creepy about it so I decided to pick his brain.
To be clear, I find nothing wrong with mixing things up, I believe I've dated someone from every ethnic group. I just don't care to be fetishsized or to see that done to others, but, if those involved are cool with the dynamic, whatever makes them happy by all means who am I to say nay.
From that conversation with the above mentioned guy, these are his exact words once I asked him about this interest:
I have always found women of color, black, oriental, indian to be sexually attractive. I think it is the contrast of color against my white, but its also the different body shapes that each has. I would like to see if your skin is warmer, or has a different texture. If your fuller lips are softer. Perhaps you make love differently than a white girl? Those are a few of my interests. Does that make me seem strange? I am genuine and my interests are sincere.
Actually no we don't. And I really wish some men would stop obsessing over paynees size. Most women do not want to deal with a horse sized wang every night.
A guy self aware isn't going to cry " would love me if I had a bic lighter?" "you only love me for my pretty di"
" only the women who like rocker musicians like me why can't women be less shallow and the women who like clean cut wall street guys like me to?"
"I am a rocker but I am only going respond to women who want a clean cut business guy"
yeah alrighty then...
Here is a novel idea, if I wanted to attract women into clean cut business guys I'd cut my hair and wear a suit. If busty women don't want to attract boob men get a reduction.
But I don't know about you but I like being "different".
As far as skin color getting back on topic, most people have to accept themselves unless you are Michael Jackson.
Damn I need to spread some rep around. That's funny as shat.
No, not kidding. A year in my past dating life you would be amazed at what I've encountered on this journey. Just today, I had a conversation with a guy that is specifically on the hunt to fulfill a long time fantasy to be with a black woman. I was intrigued by his ad, because he didn't sound to creepy about it so I decided to pick his brain.
To be clear, I find nothing wrong with mixing things up, I believe I've dated someone from every ethnic group. I just don't care to be fetishsized or to see that done to others, but, if those involved are cool with the dynamic, whatever makes them happy by all means who am I to say nay.
From that conversation with the above mentioned guy, these are his exact words once I asked him about this interest:
I have always found women of color, black, oriental, indian to be sexually attractive. I think it is the contrast of color against my white, but its also the different body shapes that each has. I would like to see if your skin is warmer, or has a different texture. If your fuller lips are softer. Perhaps you make love differently than a white girl? Those are a few of my interests. Does that make me seem strange? I am genuine and my interests are sincere.
I have met so many men like this! Why do they think this is okay?!
I have met so many men like this! Why do they think this is okay?!
How did you respond?
Is it just me or are Southern White men (particularly the older ones) usually the worst with this type of nonsense?
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"you only love me for my pretty di"
