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My buddy "Chris" go out every other weekend(drinks, dinner, jazz,etc...) I enjoy his company he's cool and fun.
Well last weekend we were supoosed to hang out. He told me he met a new girl and asked if it was okay for her to tag along. I didn't like that idea. So all week up until the outing I was trying to come up with an excuse to cancel out. Turns out that he canceled because he wanted to take her to a movie instead. That worked out well for me. He did let me talk to her on the phone and she had a rough, raspy voice.
This weekend we had already planned, a month ago, to go to the jazz show. She wasn't in the picture yet. Well he wants her to tag along with us.
He has a history of dating "trashy" women. We're middle class guys. We're both from good stock in terms of family and neighborhoods. We're not trashy guys. But he goes for women like that.
I've had this talk with him and he said , he has this thing for dating women that need to be "resued" from bad situations. He lets the women move in with him, gives them money and everything else. On a few occassions the gals had drug problems.
I really want to go to the jazz show tomorrow but I do not want "her" tagging along with us. They women that he dates even look out of place. We go to mid to high end places and some of the women that he dates are not accsutomed to the environments we are in. It's sometimes embarrassing.
Maybe you should meet this one, then judge her. Or just roll with the punches. He's dating her, you're not. No one's looking at you saying "Wow, look at the guy who's with the guy who brought the trashy date."
In the end it is his decision..personally I find that kind of preying on vulnerable women disguised as savior complex pretty distasteful so I would feel the same as you. However he is an adult and there's nothing you can really do about it, other than tell him directly. You know him better than I do, how would he react to you telling him your not comfortable with his SO to the restaurants you like to go to?
Maybe you should meet this one, then judge her. Or just roll with the punches. He's dating her, you're not. No one's looking at you saying "Wow, look at the guy who's with the guy who brought the trashy date."
hahaha I'm workin' on a little somethin' these days.
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