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Old 12-08-2012, 10:21 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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yeah the bad thing is that you don't have to woo the friends to get anywhere. They will see you and if you arn't good looking enough or what the friends would go for, then they won't approve and hence you won't get the girl you like. I think it's messed up you have to bbe attractive to everyone in the group just to get one person since not everyone has the same tastes obviously.
This is an insane belief. No woman will turn down a guy who catches her fancy just because her friends don't think he's all that. She'll find an excuse to break away from her friends.

OP, just go back next week, same time, same day, see if they're there.
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Old 12-08-2012, 11:27 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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OP, if you approach this woman and talk to her, you're a bad person. Approaching women you don't know is no different than being a predator, I know you have bad intentions and if you don't go read a book on how to carry a relationship you're just a pig.

What happens if you approach her.. go out with her and after a week you find out that you aren't compatible. That's lost time.
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Old 12-09-2012, 02:19 AM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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You are afraid of rejection.
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Old 12-09-2012, 02:40 AM
 
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yeah the bad thing is that you don't have to woo the friends to get anywhere. They will see you and if you arn't good looking enough or what the friends would go for, then they won't approve and hence you won't get the girl you like. I think it's messed up you have to bbe attractive to everyone in the group just to get one person since not everyone has the same tastes obviously.
My question is do you only date teenagers?

I know teen girls will do this, maybe even a bit after high school they may do it.

I know that when they become independant, they do not seek approval of there friends.
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Old 12-09-2012, 07:15 AM
 
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yeah the bad thing is that you don't have to woo the friends to get anywhere. They will see you and if you arn't good looking enough or what the friends would go for, then they won't approve and hence you won't get the girl you like. I think it's messed up you have to bbe attractive to everyone in the group just to get one person since not everyone has the same tastes obviously.
Oh dear. What sorts of women are you attempting to attract? The majority of women that I know are very much not like this.
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