I'm a big guy. (interested, relations, reasons, honest)
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Christ you people, he's just trying to find out where he can find chubby chasers. They exist amongst both genders you know.
It's a message board, and the moment you state that you are flawed in any physical way, you're going to get picked apart like a bunch of rabid horny jackals tearing a zebra carcass apart. You gotta understand that going in, because it's the easiest thing to do.
Good for you! I proud that you have stuck up for who you are. There is nothing wrong with being big. If someone can't love you for WHO you are then they are loosing out! I hope you find someone very deserving. They are out there. Keep looking. God Bless!
Um, see the part where he's not willing to love a similarly sized woman for who she is.
you can see it in your ( potential) mate that it might not be there yet, but the person is predisposed to it. If a beer belly is a deal breaker for some women, you better know that even if at the initial stage this ( potential) mate might abstain from beer, *in a few month* he'll get into it, as it was always meant to be. And there you have it - your current mate ( not "potential" one any longer) with a beer belly. If it was never a deal breaker to begin with - both will laugh it off. But if for a woman it's one of those physical traits in men that are turn offs, she will be probably avoiding men who are predisposed to beer bellies to begin with.
Same with men. Granted - the excessive weight has its stigma in society, but deep down every man knows whether he doesn't mind women being on a plump side ( or he actually prefers it,) or this plumpness is a big turn-off irrespectively from what society holds as standard.
Huh? There is no "predisposed". A "beer belly" is nothing more than a FAT gut. Period. Doesn't matter what got it there....beer, pizza, or collard greens and pork rinds.
Huh? There is no "predisposed". A "beer belly" is nothing more than a FAT gut. Period. Doesn't matter what got it there....beer, pizza, or collard greens and pork rinds.
So some people are predisposed to have a fat gut, already at a fairly young age. Some are not.
It's that simple.
OP you are fat and appear to be one of those guys who thinks it is fine to be fat but women shouldn't be. You can like what you want, but most thin women don't like fat men, sorry. I am average weight and do not date fat men. Thin men have every right to be realistic about not dating fat women but fat men don't. That is harsh but the reality.
OP you are fat and appear to be one of those guys who thinks it is fine to be fat but women shouldn't be. You can like what you want, but most thin women don't like fat men, sorry. I am average weight and do not date fat men. Thin men have every right to be realistic about not dating fat women but fat men don't. That is harsh but the reality.
this was blatant in the OP, he's a hypocrite -- so who cares if he finds the woman of his dreams? Hopefully if he does, she will be fat or eventually get fat. Serves him right.
I bet if a fat nasty girl had started this thread with the same question she would have been provided with all kind of dating sites
Big and Beutiful women.com
Fat and Fabulous.com
Large and Lovely.com
Fat Girls rock.com
But a heavy dude who wants some advice on what site a smaller woman wants a bigger guy gets no help.
Try Craiglist in your local city. I;m the same size as you but a little taller and had small pretty women come meet me at my place or in public from posting ads on craiglist in the past. As long as you are handsome you won't have a issue finding a small pretty female, good luck.
this was blatant in the OP, he's a hypocrite -- so who cares if he finds the woman of his dreams? Hopefully if he does, she will be fat or eventually get fat. Serves him right.
That's what really annoyed me about him. It would be one thing if he mentioned he was fat and asking women to give him a chance. However him then attacking fat women struck a raw nerve. Maybe because when I did online I would have these extremely obese men who would contact me to complain about the larger women or in their profile would put "no fatties". I'm not even fat myself but it was offensive when they did it.
I think that you should focus on living like a celibate monk. Unless you are very wealthy, thin women are not into fat guys. And you said you are not attracted to fat women.
So....order a pizza, and enjoy yourself. Alone.
Not true, plenty thin women will date a fat guy if he had a handsome face. Seen it all my life
<--------- LOVES big, beefy men. Men similar to NFL defensive ends...
I met Michael Strahan a few years ago in Paramus, NJ ... OMG! He's heavenly ... Love his height, his weight, his muscles ... HOT !!!!!
Strahan was never in the heavy category
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A "beer belly" is nothing more than a FAT gut. Period. Doesn't matter what got it there....beer, pizza, or collard greens and pork rinds. 
