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View Poll Results: Men, would you rather date an ex-stripper with 2 partners or a woman with 15 partners
Ex-stripper with 2 partners 24 54.55%
Woman with 15 partners 20 45.45%
Voters: 44. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 12-10-2012, 11:21 AM
 
Location: Westminster, CO
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Ignorance isnt the same as not caring.
I'm vastly entertained that you seem to be trying to make this into something it's not.

I generally say what I mean and mean what I say.
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Old 12-10-2012, 11:30 AM
 
Location: North of 60
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Ignorance isnt the same as not caring.
Obviously he knows his wife has a sexual past. He's not ignorant of that fact.

Since he chooses not to press for more information about it indicates that he doesn't care. I'm sure if he wanted to know, he would by now. They've been married a long time. Why would he all of a sudden start caring if he didn't before?
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Old 12-10-2012, 12:23 PM
 
Location: Westminster, CO
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Obviously he knows his wife has a sexual past. He's not ignorant of that fact.

Since he chooses not to press for more information about it indicates that he doesn't care. I'm sure if he wanted to know, he would by now. They've been married a long time. Why would he all of a sudden start caring if he didn't before?
Thanks kimbo.

In the interest of clarity, my ex and I were married along time. My wife and I have been together not quite two years and married only 4.5 months.

You are exactly correct, though. I know she has a past. She's answered every questions I've ever asked, just as I've answered every question she's ever asked.
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Old 12-10-2012, 12:50 PM
 
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Obviously he knows his wife has a sexual past. He's not ignorant of that fact.
One would hope not, as that would be a pretty simple fact.
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Old 12-10-2012, 05:51 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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This is a variant of "would you rather" discussion I had with some friends. Let's assume that both are 27. They are not drug addicts. The ex-stripper worked in a topless strip club with limited contact (no touching of breasts) for two years. She had two serious boyfriends before she worked there. The other woman had two one-night stands. The question is about serious dating, not just sex.
If you are dating a woman who is great in bed, you should say a silent "thank you" to all the men she slept with before you, regardless of their number and regardless of what your GF does for a living. People don't get good at sex without practice.
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Old 12-10-2012, 05:54 PM
 
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Stripper probably more attractive , thats what I would go with
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Old 12-10-2012, 07:59 PM
 
Location: In the city
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Stripper probably more attractive , thats what I would go with

Oh puhleeze!

Apparently you have never been to some of the strip clubs I have...
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Old 12-10-2012, 08:00 PM
 
Location: In the city
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[quote=RogersParkGuy;27288253]If you are dating a woman who is great in bed, you should say a silent "thank you" to all the men she slept with before you, regardless of their number and regardless of what your GF does for a living. People don't get good at sex without practice.[/quote]


Amen. You get extra points for being a smart cookie.
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Old 12-10-2012, 08:05 PM
 
Location: In the city
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Poll for men: see disregard


Why are all these caveats placed on women? You would never see a poll like this from women about men: Mean Cheater or Nice Cheater, LOL. They always find a way to break a woman down to her sex partners regardless of everything else. Typical.

Exactly. Where do these crazy Puritans come from? Are they really that insecure that they can't deal with a woman who has had sex with more than two people?

There is another thread where some poor soul is talking about her sexless marriage and says she was a virgin prior to her wedding night. Why would ANYONE advocate that in this day and age? Now she is stuck with someone who has no interest in her. If she had slept around a little, several people (husband, kids, herself) would be in a much better and healthier state of mind.
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Old 12-10-2012, 08:09 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Exactly. Where do these crazy Puritans come from? Are they really that insecure that they can't deal with a woman who has had sex with more than two people?

There is another thread where some poor soul is talking about her sexless marriage and says she was a virgin prior to her wedding night. Why would ANYONE advocate that in this day and age? Now she is stuck with someone who has no interest in her. If she had slept around a little, several people (husband, kids, herself) would be in a much better and healthier state of mind.

Okay well you and I are not on the same page at all, LOL. I am a virgin and advocate people doing whatever they want as far as these matters are concerned. I don't beleive women should have to kowtow to what men want when men don't do it for them. I don't see them limiting their sex partners so women will want them.... I don't agree with most of what these people do, but oh well, such is life....Um, I don't know why someone is a 'poor soul' because they have a sexless marriage, if that's what the 2 people want. Pushing this idea that people who sleep around are healthier, smarter, better, heroic or whatever, is B.S. and I'm the last person who's going to side with you on that one. So sorry.
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