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The key isnt to 'approach' the key is to put yourself in a position to be standing next to her when light conversation can start. You might be on a supermarket line or a starbucks line and she could be behind you or in front of you or next to you...so, you're not 'walking up to her' you're just next to her and conversation breaks out. I would imagine that's a better way of meeting people rather than seeing someone across the room and making the long walk towards her.
Very good advice sir
Both ways are incredibly awkward but one is much less so
I ask because I always hear this from women online
"Don't approach me at the gym cause I just want to work out and not be bothered"
"Don't approach me at the bar cause I'm just there to drink and party with my friends"
"Don't approach me on the street because it's creepy"
"Don't approach me at the store because I'm just there to shop"
*Insert another situation where I don't ever want to be approached*
etc...etc...etc....
What options does that leave? Is there ever a time where women aren't extremely annoyed by male attention of any kind?
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Originally Posted by brahmabull117
Women say damn near every form of approaching them is a terrible idea
Don't approach her at work - you could get fired
Don't approach her where she works - she's just trying to earn money and doesn't care about you
Don't approach her at the gym - she's just trying to work out
Don't approach her at the bar/club - she's just there to have fun with her friends
Don't approach her on the street - it's creepy
Don't approach her at every other location imaginable because of X, Y and Z reasons
So what's going on here? Do 99.99% of people just find their partner through their small social circle? Are you doomed to be alone if you don't have any friends who know single girls?
I don't mean to sound bitter in the slightest bit, just curious what one is supposed to do
Maybe you should refer back to the last thread you made on the subject instead of cluttering the board?
Do you know what the definition of insanity is? If not, google "definition of insanity", look at the threads you've posted here, and then look in the mirror. I'm not trying to be mean, but you DO ask the same questions over and over, argue ad nauseum with anyone who tries to (helpfully) answer, and then go on about how you're right and everyone else is wrong.
Do you know what the definition of insanity is? If not, google "definition of insanity", look at the threads you've posted here, and then look in the mirror. I'm not trying to be mean, but you DO ask the same questions over and over, argue ad nauseum with anyone who tries to (helpfully) answer, and then go on about how you're right and everyone else is wrong.
--Dim
I just want somebody to post some real truth on this forum and stop with the idealistic nonsense
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Not really, I have 2 free days a week and need the time to recover, relax and do errands
I work a 5 day workweek too but I still find time to go out and meet women various ways. Is the 5 minutes composing a message to a woman online dating saying "hi I'm _____" that taxing? Is starting a convo about getting the same coffee at Starbucks that a girl got going to feel like eternity? If "your time", is that precious to you, then don't bother even wasting time in a relationship.
Really these folks are trying to help you out. When you open your ears and mind to their advice, I guarantee you will be farther along to where you want to go. Believe me, I've done it.
Women are evil, manipulative creatures who can snap their scrawny little fingers and get any man they want.
Women love to see us men squirm while we hope for a chance of being in a relationship with them.
Women cannot stand men, and only allow us in their lives because they need something.
Women don't like being approached by men, and prefer to talk to a brick wall instead.
Women want certain qualities in men then deny men with said qualities--and they joke about it later with other women.
Etc. Etc.
How is that for truth?
--Dim
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