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Yep that is probably why you snooped, you forced your own hand. You knew all along this dude wasn't going to work out so you looked for the proof. Next time you will hopefully trust yourself and not invest any time in a guy you know isn't quite right. I would view this as a positive.
Lol...maybe?
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It almost sounds like it is.
I think I'd be more concerned about him being secretive.
We'll see come Monday...
Thanks for the advice everyone.
Who says complete strangers can't help you feel a little better.
Whatever , you're the one quoting stats to justify your bigotry, seen it a million times... sorta adds an air of legitimacy to the argument....... at least people like you hope so..........
Whatever , you're the one quoting stats to justify your bigotry, seen it a million times... sorta adds an air of legitimacy to the argument....... at least people like you hope so..........
Maybe you should go to the CDC website and tell me what you find there
Maybe you should go to the CDC website and tell me what you find there
LOL, again with the stats......
People that are homophobic LOVE to quote those kinds of stats.... I stand by my previous statements about homophobia.... LOL, I just wish these people would at least admit that they don't like gays..... It's just so much more socially acceptable to sound like you're concerned about health and trot out the old CDC statistics on AIDS.
I've been dating a guy for a several months now who I truly have grown to care about.
For some reason, something prompted me to randomly search his online dating profile username and when I did a couple of startling things came up. For one, in 2007, he was in a 5 year relationship with another women who used to use "toys" on him.
Apparently this is normal? I didn't know this, but a lot of couples do it.
Also, they both considered "corrective" surgery for one another to have opposite parts. And that he was interested in gay men and transgendered men (?). I'm guessing he was interested in becoming a woman and she the guy.
I guess I snooped? But this was all available from a google search. Our relationship hasn't been the best and he always seems half in & half out. One day he will want to be with me and the next he has to think about it.
When I was staying by his house one day, I was putting my clothes in a drawer and came across some 1x-2x Lingerie. I asked him and he told me that he likes sexy lingerie. He put it in his closet. I didn't think anything of it, but now. It makes me wonder if it was for him because of the size.
Should I address my findings with him? He will be back in town on Monday.
It sounds like it is already an issue and you already don't trust him so break it off with him immediately and move on to someone you do trust who you won't "snoop" about on google or anywhere else like their dresser drawer where you have no business being anyway unless you are the maid putting away his laundry.
People that are homophobic LOVE to quote those kinds of stats.... I stand by my previous statements about homophobia.... LOL, I just wish these people would at least admit that they don't like gays..... It's just so much more socially acceptable to sound like you're concerned about health and trot out the old CDC statistics on AIDS.
I'm done......
Stats don't lie,I'm not sure why you think the Center For Disease Control has an agenda.
It sounds like it is already an issue and you already don't trust him so break it off with him immediately and move on to someone you do trust who you won't "snoop" about on google or anywhere else like their dresser drawer where you have no business being anyway unless you are the maid putting away his laundry.
Only thing I mentioned snooping about was searching his username in Google.
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