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Old 12-16-2012, 12:12 AM
 
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I wanted to make this post cause i get a lot of people bashing me because of my negativity. Anyways, ive been getting much better at connecting with women recently. I posted about new girl ive been getting along great with and i met another lady tonight who i had a great time with. Ive been focusing really hard on just treating women with the utmost respect and its going great


Now, this lady is an airplane attendant who has moved away recently and has a boyfriend anyways but i felt proud for having a great interaction. The issue now becomes... Where the **** do i find single women? I went to a bar and seemingly every woman was there with a man. Hell i went there with a group of 30 people and like 3 of them were single Jesus, do single people even exist anymore?
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Old 12-16-2012, 01:38 AM
 
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I wanted to make this post cause i get a lot of people bashing me because of my negativity. Anyways, ive been getting much better at connecting with women recently. I posted about new girl ive been getting along great with and i met another lady tonight who i had a great time with. Ive been focusing really hard on just treating women with the utmost respect and its going great


Now, this lady is an airplane attendant who has moved away recently and has a boyfriend anyways but i felt proud for having a great interaction. The issue now becomes... Where the **** do i find single women? I went to a bar and seemingly every woman was there with a man. Hell i went there with a group of 30 people and like 3 of them were single Jesus, do single people even exist anymore?
Good to hear you're being proactive.

You live in Chicago, man. I'm sure there's tons of single girls. You just have to find where they're at.

I suggest seeking out clubs. The hottest girls go there and it's really good practice. If you can get girls at clubs, you can get them anywhere.
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Old 12-16-2012, 02:52 AM
 
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I wanted to make this post cause i get a lot of people bashing me because of my negativity. Anyways, ive been getting much better at connecting with women recently. I posted about new girl ive been getting along great with and i met another lady tonight who i had a great time with. Ive been focusing really hard on just treating women with the utmost respect and its going great


Now, this lady is an airplane attendant who has moved away recently and has a boyfriend anyways but i felt proud for having a great interaction. The issue now becomes... Where the **** do i find single women? I went to a bar and seemingly every woman was there with a man. Hell i went there with a group of 30 people and like 3 of them were single Jesus, do single people even exist anymore?
Pursue hobbies.

Pursue hobbies with others.

One of the best interactions I had with a woman was when I was at a music shop playing piano. She worked there, and we had a *real* talk about music, technique, what we were each doing musically - she played for me, I played for her.

You don't have to play an instrument, but find something you absolutely love to do. Then place yourself around others who feel the same.

Club girls can go home with club guys.
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Old 12-16-2012, 10:41 AM
 
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Pursue hobbies.

Pursue hobbies with others.

One of the best interactions I had with a woman was when I was at a music shop playing piano. She worked there, and we had a *real* talk about music, technique, what we were each doing musically - she played for me, I played for her.

You don't have to play an instrument, but find something you absolutely love to do. Then place yourself around others who feel the same.

Club girls can go home with club guys.
that sounds good actually. Im crazy about all music in general


I think one appealing aspect of my personality is that i can find almost anything at least somewhat interesting so i can make friends with a wide spectrum of people
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Old 12-16-2012, 11:11 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Where the **** do i find single women? I went to a bar and seemingly every woman was there with a man. Hell i went there with a group of 30 people and like 3 of them were single Jesus, do single people even exist anymore?
Why do you keep asking this? We've told you umpteen times, over umpteen threads. Please review your old threads.

Women aren't labeled "Single" vs. "Taken". Nor are there magic locations where only single women gather, that you can target. You have to talk to a number of women to find a single one, and one who's interested in you. The practice you get talking to women who turn out to be off the dating market is still good practice.
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Old 12-16-2012, 03:19 PM
 
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Lol the OP started positive and then crashed and burned.
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Old 12-16-2012, 03:26 PM
 
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Lol the OP started positive and then crashed and burned.

I don't think I'm saying anything negative, just that finding single people can be hard as hell. That's something that is said quite a bit here by tons of other posters
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Old 12-16-2012, 04:07 PM
 
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Go to a different bar. If you want confirmation of singleness do online dating. I don't care if you don't like other bars or online dating. Just do it.
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Old 12-16-2012, 04:44 PM
 
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you live in chicago? then why don't we meet? im single. u mean u never met anyone on dating sites?


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Lol the OP started positive and then crashed and burned.
yep.
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Old 12-16-2012, 04:46 PM
 
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Go to a different bar. If you want confirmation of singleness do online dating. I don't care if you don't like other bars or online dating. Just do it.
lol! Yeah that's right OP, you just do it! Like or not! haha
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