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So basically this guy and I have been talking since October.
We got along pretty well and talked about many things. It was going well. A lot of my friends liked him for me and I started to like him as well. We both spoke the same language and came from a pretty similar background so it was even more fun.
We would do a lot fun things together (did not get sexual with each other) and really clicked. We began to hold hands, cuddle, nuzzle and stay up all night talking in each others arms (just 2 nights ago) even in front of other people and his friends. He even came and spent his birthday with me.
Basically long story short, I began to consider him and really like him. Then (Damn Facebook) began to show me some things about him commenting on this other girls page. I did not think much about it especially considering he was single but then it got me thinking. Some of the thing he wrote on there just seemed odd.
We were supposed to go see a movie today but last night, I mustered up the courage to ask him if he had a girlfriend or was seeing anyone else because of the things on Facebook. I could not find it on my conscious to go out with a guy who may already have a girlfriend despite the last couple of months.
He said that he did not have a girlfriend but planned on asking that girl out and that he wanted to tell me but did not know how to tell me. He asked if I could still meet him up for a talk instead of a movie then so he can explain. I was so upset that I just told him "No thank you but good luck on your final exam and asking her out."
In the evening today when we were supposed to go to the movie, he asked me "Can I meet you up and explain myself to you please?"
I am just so upset. I don't want to see him. And I already have an idea of what it is probably going to be like. "Oh you...I am so sorry that I lead you on for months despite knowing I really like this other girl....I am so sorry for any hurt feelings...I really hope we can be friends and I am gonna go out with this girl. Sorry!"
I guess I just wanted your opinions or thoughts about what you think he could possibly say. Is it worth going?
Did he not remember that you were FB friends and could see all his activity??
I think your instincts are right. Why bother listening to his "explanation," which really would just be a rationalization of why he was not being up front with you?
He's already told you everything you need to know: "I plan to ask her out."
I don't think I'd meet him. It's unlikely he's realized what a jerk he was or wants to be with you. He probably just feels guilty and wants you to let him off the hook, so he doesn't have to feel bad for leading you on. Let him ask out another girl and don't answer the phone when things don't work and he calls you for his back up plan!
Arrange to meet him somewhere quite awkward, then don't turn up or call.
yep! do that. then if he whines which im sure he will... tell him payback's a bi-tch! innit? then laugh haaaaaaaaaard!
the douche is obviously a qu-eer drama queen. why else would he blatantly flirt with the other girl on FB when he KNOWS u can read it?! either that or he is the biggest idiot. either way he's a loser and u don't wanna associate urself with those degenerates do u?
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