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I was going to and probably still am start taking some licorice root. Taken in high doses it's supposed to make one impotent. I admire these men that can get by having sex once or twice a year. Most women I've been with b**** when I ask too much, they b**** when I don't ask, frick it, too much drama for me.
I just scanned this thread so if someone else brought this up, sorry.
You said he is a gym rat. Is he ripped or just normal working out? The reason I am asking is steroids will knock the male sex drive right out. Too much testosterone is just as bad, if not worse, than too little. There is even a body builder term of this, it is called "Tren Dick". It is for the steroid trenbolone that has the effect of really packing on muscle and size, but effectively shuts down the sex organs and drive. Have you noticed if his junk is shrinking? Also, hair loss is another give away.
Just a thought.
He's just as likely to be a gym rat because he can't perform and he's compensating.
Does he have an enormous tricked out SUV and/or red sports car?
Phallic substitutes, every one of them.
OP if you're still reading this, view your time and youth as money in the bank that you are throwing away. You will never ever get back the months and years you are spending with this guy. There actually isn't enough money in the world to compensate you for lost youth, don't leave it until you're old to realise that. (like I did).
What if it can't be fixed? What if the "excitement" for him has worn off? Go ahead, find yourself a new man. You know you've considered.
what the hell kind of excitement can be lost by 6 months??? you should just be getting started at that point!
Msannthrope-believe me, I know. a part of me doesn't want to be taht girl that can't make a relationship last longer than 6 months and a bigger part of me doesn't want to waste my time either. I'll figure it out. Also yeah, he has a jeep wrangler :-p but there are no down there size issues. As far as I know he's a gym rat cause he wants to be stay healthy.
I was going to and probably still am start taking some licorice root. Taken in high doses it's supposed to make one impotent. I admire these men that can get by having sex once or twice a year. Most women I've been with b**** when I ask too much, they b**** when I don't ask, frick it, too much drama for me.
Once or twice a year! They need to drink more ginseng.
I was just dating this girl who always wanted to go at it, and would get angry at me for having "low sex drive". I don't really know why this happens. I masturbate several times daily like an animal, but just wasn't in to doing an actual person for some reason. She was kind of irritating to be around, though. Check off all the factors before you decide he has a problem or whatever.
I was just dating this girl who always wanted to go at it, and would get angry at me for having "low sex drive". I don't really know why this happens. I masturbate several times daily like an animal, but just wasn't in to doing an actual person for some reason. She was kind of irritating to be around, though. Check off all the factors before you decide he has a problem or whatever.
what the hell kind of excitement can be lost by 6 months??? you should just be getting started at that point!
Msannthrope-believe me, I know. a part of me doesn't want to be taht girl that can't make a relationship last longer than 6 months and a bigger part of me doesn't want to waste my time either. I'll figure it out. Also yeah, he has a jeep wrangler :-p but there are no down there size issues. As far as I know he's a gym rat cause he wants to be stay healthy.
LOL@ jeep wrangler. Told ya so.
Just because he has no size/performance issues, doesn't mean he's not a penis-hoarder.
I was married to one, trust me, they exist. Guys who are happier masturbating to porn than bothering themselves with a real live human, being their unfortunate wife/partner who never sees this coming because they can actually perform quite well when they want to.
They just stop wanting to...or perhaps, needing to. Once they have you hooked.
With my ex, it was very passive aggressive, related to denying me intimacy and self esteem. I didn't see it until after the marriage though, which is how I know and why I'm telling you to run now before he sucks any more out of you.
I have a feeling you won't listen though so I'll see you back here in 4 months complaining about him again. He may even be gay and selected you for his beard. Oh happy days.
Just because he has no size/performance issues, doesn't mean he's not a penis-hoarder.
I was married to one, trust me, they exist. Guys who are happier masturbating to porn than bothering themselves with a real live human, being their unfortunate wife/partner who never sees this coming because they can actually perform quite well when they want to.
They just stop wanting to...or perhaps, needing to. Once they have you hooked.
With my ex, it was very passive aggressive, related to denying me intimacy and self esteem. I didn't see it until after the marriage though, which is how I know and why I'm telling you to run now before he sucks any more out of you.
I have a feeling you won't listen though so I'll see you back here in 4 months complaining about him again. He may even be gay and selected you for his beard. Oh happy days.
hey now, don't write me off so easy like that. I know the answer myself, I just need to figure out what to do. He has no idea of any of the problems I have but its who he is so its not like he can change. which is why I'm very careful about bringing up concerns as I only bring them up if its just a bad habit that can maybe be worked on. It can't be worked on if its who he is. he's definitely not gay. maybe he is a penis-hoarder..who knows. Its been like this almost from day one so by now I'm getting sick of it. Now he's sick again and i'm about to be out of commission again for 5 days so who knows when i'll get laid again aahhhh. Also, I'm not exactly hooked. I definitely love him but I realize I'm not in love with him. It hurt to admit it to myself and I finally did. Oh well. It happens.
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Once or twice a year! They need to drink more ginseng.
aahhhh. Also, I'm not exactly hooked. I definitely love him but I realize I'm not in love with him. It hurt to admit it to myself and I finally did. Oh well. It happens.
