Need advice for a friend.

[MsAnnThrope]

It's the sort of thing I would do to a guy if I didn't want to stop and speak to him but didn't want to shatter him either.

[straight shooter]

If she did not want to talk to him for a second time or shatter him (I don't know what that exactly means) than wouldn't it be better to just look the other way and avoid eye contact?

[Senno]

Originally Posted by MsAnnThrope

It's the sort of thing I would do to a guy if I didn't want to stop and speak to him but didn't want to shatter him either.

If he would shatter from a simple "no thanks", that's a bigger problem....

[MsAnnThrope]

Originally Posted by straight shooter

If she did not want to talk to him for a second time or shatter him (I don't know what that exactly means) than wouldn't it be better to just look the other way and avoid eye contact?

He's a customer where she works!

She can't ignore him.

[straight shooter]

Originally Posted by Senno

If he would shatter from a simple "no thanks", that's a bigger problem....

I agree. He also told me that it was not a twitch or dust because I questioned him and he said it was an obvious wink.

[Dr. Clean]

Originally Posted by straight shooter

The other day he talked to her for a little bit and he tells me that it went well. He ran into her again as he was leaving the store and she winked and smiled and he smiled back and left. He asked me if the wink was a signal or was it her just being friendly. He tells me that he is not sure because she is always friendly to everyone.

The wink and smile are indicators of interests. he is overdue on asking for her cell number, but she's still open to talking to him to see if there is more spark and compatibility. next time he sees her, he needs to just say "hey, i wanna send u a text, whats ur number?" Better if he can whisper that and hand her his phone and say "just punch it in. thanks". Then text her whatever banter, conversation starter or other message you think we take you where you want to go next. Good Luck!