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Old 01-01-2013, 07:36 PM
 
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So what if I am a virgin? I have no desire to have sex or to connect with anyone. Also people kind of suck nowadays.
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Old 01-01-2013, 07:38 PM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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So what if I am a virgin? I have no desire to have sex or to connect with anyone. Also people kind of suck nowadays.
You're interacting with people here on the C-D forums...

maybe you do have a desire to connect with people
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Old 01-01-2013, 07:41 PM
 
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There is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 29. I have no desire to have sex. I am not ashamed.
I certainly never meant to suggest that there was anything at all wrong with being a virgin at 29. It's your life and your choice. So, you've abstained from sex because you have an inactive libido? What do you attribute this to? Something physiological or perhaps psychological? If you're uncomfortable answering then by all means, ignore my post.
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Old 01-01-2013, 07:44 PM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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37/m/1 (so far in 2013)
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Old 01-01-2013, 07:46 PM
 
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I certainly never meant to suggest that there was anything at all wrong with being a virgin at 29. It's your life and your choice. So, you've abstained from sex because you have an inactive libido? What do you attribute this to? Something physiological or perhaps psychological? If you're uncomfortable answering then by all means, ignore my post.
I'm sorry to imply that you were. My apologies.

I think I may be asexual. I've never had any sort of sex drive or desire to have sex. In fact, the idea disgusts me. I've just never had any sort of sexual attraction to anybody, male or female.
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Old 01-01-2013, 07:52 PM
 
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I think I may be asexual. I've never had any sort of sex drive or desire to have sex. In fact, the idea disgusts me. I've just never had any sort of sexual attraction to anybody, male or female.
Is this something that you're open to your family and friends about? Or is it something you keep to yourself?
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Old 01-01-2013, 07:57 PM
 
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Is this something that you're open to your family and friends about? Or is it something you keep to yourself?
I am extremely open.

However, I think some of my family members are in denial. They keep trying to pressure me to get married and have children.
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Old 01-01-2013, 08:06 PM
 
Location: DFW
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Where are all the 100+ people ?
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Old 01-01-2013, 08:08 PM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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Where are all the 100+ people ?
Clearly, they don't have time to post on CD
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Old 01-01-2013, 08:10 PM
 
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I am extremely open.

However, I think some of my family members are in denial. They keep trying to pressure me to get married and have children.
So, have you simply accepted that you will never have sex and never have a family of your own? Or do you potentially want something different? I mean, have you ever stepped outside of your self-ascribed asexuality to see if perhaps you could be sexual?
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