For those of you who won't date single parents (male, different, relations)
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Is it because the kids themselves drive you nuts and you don't like having them around? Or is it for financial reasons...
For me it's both of those reasons...
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Originally Posted by JetJockey
For me, I'm simply not at the stage in my life where I feel I want the stability of a child, either my own or someone else's. I want to be able to pick up and move at a moments notice, or go on a long vacation or even drive for a few hours to a bed and breakfast without needing to find a babysitter.
...as well as this.
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Originally Posted by lpfan921
Or is there some other reason i have not thought of?
Another reason is I simply don't know how to interact with children because I've never really been around them very much. I'm the same way with dogs. I like dogs, but when one runs up to me wagging its tail, and I try to pet it, it looks at me like I don't know what I'm doing. I'm used to cats, and cats love me. But apparently there are different petting techniques for dogs and cats. Similarly, I can interact with adults all day just fine, but put me in a situation where I have to interact with children (of any age), and it's the most awkward thing you'll ever see.
Another reason is I simply don't know how to interact with children because I've never really been around them very much. I'm the same way with dogs. I like dogs, but when one runs up to me wagging its tail, and I try to pet it, it looks at me like I don't know what I'm doing. I'm used to cats, and cats love me. But apparently there are different petting techniques for dogs and cats. Similarly, I can interact with adults all day just fine, but put me in a situation where I have to interact with children (of any age), and it's the most awkward thing you'll ever see.
I agree with this. I am the same way. I beleive children can 'sense' when you're the type that doesn't interact with them well. How true? I dunno.
Far as I know, dogs just like to be petted, period. LOL.
Another reason is I simply don't know how to interact with children because I've never really been around them very much. I'm the same way with dogs. I like dogs, but when one runs up to me wagging its tail, and I try to pet it, it looks at me like I don't know what I'm doing. I'm used to cats, and cats love me. But apparently there are different petting techniques for dogs and cats. Similarly, I can interact with adults all day just fine, but put me in a situation where I have to interact with children (of any age), and it's the most awkward thing you'll ever see.
It's really not that hard. I guess it's what your brought up with.
It's really not that hard. I guess it's what your brought up with.
Well, when I pet a dog I just sort pat them on the back, or scratch them around the shoulders, because when I pet cats like that they love it. But when I do it to dogs they give me this look that says, "You...you've never done this before, have you? Well, nice effort, anyway." I don't know, maybe they actually like it and I just don't interpret their facial expressions well.
Why are kids a deal-breaker for you? I notice this more with men who won't date single mothers, although it can happen with women not dating single dads as well. Is it because the kids themselves drive you nuts and you don't like having them around? Or is it for financial reasons, because you fear that your significant other would guilt you into helping financially support a kid who is not yours? Or is there some other reason i have not thought of?
um, don't look at us. I happen to spend my free time teaching formal swim instruction which clients typically are the children of 'banana splits' (divorced parents). I can't tell you how many times I have tried to interact with the mothers, only to be 'shot down' for what ever reason is customary.
My pride forces me to think they do not wish to interact with their child's swim instructor, but I've been out on dates and have seen them with their girl buddies on 'mother's night out' and I see no reason why there could not be more involvement other than their own reasons.
are you one of these people that puts your dog in clothes?
My dog LOVES being dressed up...she actually won't go outside if it's cold out unless she's wearing a jacket/sweater and boots, if it's cold enough.
She's the worst pit bull ever.
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