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I have options and you are the one who could use mental help. I have my reasons for teaching these men a lesson and yes if they are intentionally seeking younger than I will lie to date one of them. By the time they found out I am older that probably won't care. I don't suck at dating and have other options. You are aware that these guys were the ones who avoided relationships when they were younger, right?
If they are entitled to their criteria then so am I, yet I am often attacked for not dating dads. Yet for some reason it is fine that these men seek younger but if I seek childless men who aren't divorced then there is something wrong with me? not hardly.
Call me crazy, but as a "devout Catholic", aren't you breaking one of the Commandments?
Call me crazy, but as a "devout Catholic", aren't you breaking one of the Commandments?
So are they. I find it ironic and sexist that people tell me I am wrong for not dating dads but don't tell these men seeking younger they are more wrong than I am because my reasons are valid theirs are not.
IDDY, I get your reasons for not wanting to date single dads or divorced men who can't marry in the church and understand that is important to you. But what I don't understand is what you have to gain from "teaching these men a lesson" by lying about your age to get them to go out with you? Or rather, what exactly is the lesson you are teaching them? I'm not attacking or being spiteful; I'm asking this in all seriousness.
IDDY, I get your reasons for not wanting to date single dads or divorced men who can't marry in the church and understand that is important to you. But what I don't understand is what you have to gain from "teaching these men a lesson" by lying about your age to get them to go out with you? Or rather, what exactly is the lesson you are teaching them? I'm not attacking or being spiteful; I'm asking this in all seriousness.
Basically, to show them that they need to stop blaming women for being single. These men were likely the ones in their 20's who refused to settle down and now that they are older are avoiding women their age. This means of course that older women sit dateless and single because the men who they want to date don't want them.
Thread closed due to the bickering and personal attacks.
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