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Old 12-31-2012, 12:29 AM
 
Location: Up in the air
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Eh, there are stereotypes about all types of people. Doesn't mean they're necessarily true.

It's assumed I'm easy because I'm fairly heavily tattooed, but I'm definitely not. It's pissed a lot of guys off in the past who thought they were going to be able to have a quick and easy hook-up.
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Old 12-31-2012, 12:35 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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Eh, there are stereotypes about all types of people. Doesn't mean they're necessarily true.

It's assumed I'm easy because I'm fairly heavily tattooed, but I'm definitely not. It's pissed a lot of guys off in the past who thought they were going to be able to have a quick and easy hook-up.
I notice you always talk about your tats...and I can't recall if you've ever talked about the significance of them......

I have one and it has no real meaning to me.. other than I was drunk that night... I just wonder if someone takes the time to have "sleeves" as you've said... what is the reasoning behind that.... it's such a major thing, I mean, It never gos away... mine is covered under my shirt and you can't see it, unless I'm at the beach or something... I often wonder what goes on in people's minds when they have dozens... or sleeves..........

Side bar.....
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Old 12-31-2012, 12:48 AM
 
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Except I don't sleep around. This has gotten certain guys at the parties confused too. It's like they were expecting the obvious and when they find out I'm just flirting (I guess I'm a tease), it's like they don't want to talk anymore. LOL

Sucks when this happens. Just because I'm a party-animal and make some moves doesn't mean I want to sleep with you.
I'm willing to bet you are a youngin. The more partying you do the more you will probably make bad decisions. It's not that you shouldn't be having fun, but if you are the one always drunk at the party then most people stereotype you. Nine times out of ten the drunk girl at the party is the one that is going home with a guy.
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Old 12-31-2012, 01:25 AM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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People like to use ways to bring other people down to make themselves feel better.
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Old 12-31-2012, 01:46 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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People like to use ways to bring other people down to make themselves feel better.
Once people grow the f up and put on their big girl/boy pants and realize that the world doesn't give a **** about whatever you think. it's humbling to realize how small you are and how life will and surely does go on without you..... you realize that a person having a few sexual partners doesn't mean jack shyt in the big scheme of life... so while you're sucking your thumb and lamenting about how many ladies your man has had... get the frig over it.....it doens't mean shyt.....
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Old 12-31-2012, 01:58 AM
 
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Possibly because many correlate partying to hooking up , sync partying with drugs and alcohol leading to gals that are 'easy', or since guys tend to seek parties/clubs/bars for sex that means gals do as well.

I'm a virgin party gal, club gal, and bar gal and usually it's only guys that assume I've had many sexual partners quite amusing for me that they think I'm a sure thing then get a huge letdown.
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Old 12-31-2012, 02:18 AM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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Possibly because many correlate partying to hooking up , sync partying with drugs and alcohol leading to gals that are 'easy', or since guys tend to seek parties/clubs/bars for sex that means gals do as well.

I'm a virgin party gal, club gal, and bar gal and usually it's only guys that assume I've had many sexual partners quite amusing for me that they think I'm a sure thing then get a huge letdown.

i'm surprised you're still a virgin considering the fact that all your friends and the guys you know are rapists
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Old 12-31-2012, 02:21 AM
 
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i'm surprised you're still a virgin considering the fact that all your friends and the guys you know are rapists
None of my friends are rapists and nowhere did I state, suggest, or imply otherwise.

I stated I know or observed such guys and 'knowing a person'/'observing a person' doesn't equate to 'being friends with the person' for me nor does it necessarily mean they're a fixture in my life long enough to rape me.
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Old 12-31-2012, 11:23 AM
 
Location: Ohio
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In my experiences its not the party girls who are freaky, its the quiet girls. The party girls usually are big teases and attention whores. I always avoid them.
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Old 12-31-2012, 11:30 AM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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Though I'm definitely not the bookish, shy next-door girl type I've only had 2 bfs. I like partying all day long, drink spirits and yes at times I'm guilty of using slang language (and have flash online at times too) for fun.

But I've never hook-up while drunk nor ever cheated. When I'm hammered I'm just into dancing all night long and simply chill but not sleep around. And yes I also have a 3.6 GPA in college and don't really have to study a lot to do well.

I was that way too when I was a virgin (and most got confused and thought I wasn't at the time).
I'm sure your father is very proud of you.
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