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Ok so maybe I'm young (I'm 20) but know what I'm doing.
Then maybe I'm the exception. It's really about self-control. I don't see how hard that can be.
Finally someone figured it out. Yes, that's my favorite brand.
That's what happened in my 2nd relationshi, which only lasted 5 months. It upset me that he would distrust me when I never cheated.
You know, every alcoholic, drug addict, and sex addict on the planet who has screwed up his or her life has said precisely the same thing. It's almost as if you're reading off a Lifetime movie script.
You know, every alcoholic, drug addict, and sex addict on the planet who has screwed up his or her life has said precisely the same thing. It's almost as if you're reading off a Lifetime movie script.
Even when I was 20 I had a whole lot maturity than KettleOne. What a silly name, and how proud she seems of it.
Yeah, OP, we got it, we just thought it was silly.
And telling us that you love to drink at the age of 20 ... again, are we supposed to be impressed?
I can tell you that with almost every UNWANTED sexual encounter that happens on college campuses (some of which are labeled rape, although many aren't), there is alcohol (or another drug, but usually alcohol) involved. So OP, go on believing that you have a lot of self-control ... someday you will discover that it was the alcohol that was telling you you were in control.
But seriously what's wrong with doing what I like? I won't change (well maybe when I'm older and this gets boring but not for now). That's me.
I don't think there is anything wrong with what you are doing. It is your life, live it how you see fit. I know a lot of party girls who, as far as I know, do not hook up anymore than anyone else.
The problem with this situation is not you but the assumptions made by other people. I do not mean this as an offense, but if you haven't noticed, the Relationship forum is populated with typical, vanilla, people. So when they come across someone like you all of their assumptions and stereotypes come into play. I happen to come from a different scene, so the typical "mainstream" thought does not apply to me. Plus, I work at a bar, and have for a long time. Believe me, the more "normal" a person appears, the more loose they tend to be.
But seriously what's wrong with doing what I like? I won't change (well maybe when I'm older and this gets boring but not for now). That's me.
Nothing wrong with going out and having a good time. Just know that as a PARTY GIRL you WILL NOT get the same respect and treatment as some of the more classier/respectable women. I commend you for keeping your sexual number low. Your future husband will probably appreciate that more than you could know.
The problem with teaching kids about "face", as the Chinese call it, is that the more you try the harder they will resist. It's considered hip to be rebellious, and it has been since the Counter-Culture movement of the 1960s. The ironic part of it is that as they eventually find themselves far more conformist than they were before, the only difference being the group they are conforming to.
I swear, kids do seem to rebel in the silliest ways...
My 2 sons, I'd support it if they wanted to have green mohawks...my oldest dreams of getting an RV someday. I'm like what are you, 13 going on 60? lol They are rebelling against their parents' "Rock n' Roll lifestyle" (such as it is) by being incredibly "normal."
If you do party as hard as you claim and "drink hard spirits", surely you'd know that it's KETELOne, not KettleOne. Evidently top shelf vodkas aren't your "hard spirit" of choice.
Why do people assume this? Well, here in Southern California, "party girl" is a common euphenism for a ho. Maybe in other places "party girl" means something else, but not in L.A.
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