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Old 01-05-2013, 02:34 PM
 
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Darling, please feel free to date all of the barflies, fattiwatties, fugawugas and desperados that your little heart desires.

Men of quality treat ladies with respect....even in 2013.
Treating a woman with respect is paying for her dinner even though she has the means to do it herself?

You sure about that?

PS: I've dated many quality women that INSIST on going dutch. Sorry to burst your bubble, sweetheart.
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Old 01-05-2013, 02:35 PM
 
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If I was ever single again (*gulp*) i'd most probably stay that way. I'd have absolutely no interest in 'selling' myself to someone on a date.... balls to that idea.
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Old 01-05-2013, 02:36 PM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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Most of the Western women I've dated have insisted on going Dutch too...probably because they think if they let me pay I'd feel entitled to sex.
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Old 01-05-2013, 02:38 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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If I was ever single again (*gulp*) i'd most probably stay that way. I'd have absolutely no interest in 'selling' myself to someone on a date.... balls to that idea.

Obviously you see you're not missing much. But that's how it's looked at these days, a walking advertisement of self. "Well they have to PROVE that they're worthy first, etc. etc.' They can't just take the woman out and both pay. Nothing is simple anymore, has to be made complicated by these little stupid games.
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Old 01-05-2013, 02:38 PM
 
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Most of the Western women I've dated have insisted on going Dutch too...probably because they think if they let me pay I'd feel entitled to sex.
I feel entitled to sex even if they pay for me.

After all, I'm really doing them a favor.
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Old 01-05-2013, 02:39 PM
 
Location: La lune et les étoiles
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Treating a woman with respect is paying for her dinner even though she has the means to do it herself?

You sure about that?

PS: I've dated many quality women that INSIST on going dutch. Sorry to burst your bubble, sweetheart.
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I feel entitled to sex even if they pay for me.

After all, I'm really doing them a favor.

Your tone is very disrespectful and hints at the bitterness that you have toward women in general. This tells me ALL that I will ever need to know about you. Good luck to you.

Tis all.
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Old 01-05-2013, 02:42 PM
 
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I TRULY am glad that I'm not out dating....... I really mean it.......

If Mrs. Chow wises up and leaves me, I'd still not want to be out there......
Agree. And I wouldn't put myself out there at this stage of life. I'd find something else to occupy my time.
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Old 01-05-2013, 02:44 PM
 
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Your tone is very disrespectful and hints at the bitterness that you have toward women in general. This tells me ALL that I will ever need to know about you. Good luck to you.

Tis all.
That's your assumption.

I'm not bitter at all. I love women and do very well with them.

In fact, I was actually kidding about the last part.

You need to relax.

PS: I do believe that women shouldn't feel entitled to have a guy pay for them though. That's just ridiculous in this day and age (although, like I said, if the girl earns it by being awesome, I have no problem paying).
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Old 01-05-2013, 02:44 PM
 
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If I was ever single again (*gulp*) i'd most probably stay that way. I'd have absolutely no interest in 'selling' myself to someone on a date.... balls to that idea.
Yeah, this too. I'm not interested in "selling" myself and competing with other women to win the affections of some random guy.
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Old 01-05-2013, 02:47 PM
 
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Yeah, this too. I'm not interested in "selling" myself and competing with other women to win the affections of some random guy.
What's all of this about "selling yourself"?

I go out and have fun. People will date you if they like being around you. There's very little salesmanship involved (except the confidence that is required in both).
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