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Old 01-07-2013, 03:04 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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I actually agree with you. When I was a kid and a teen and tried to make friends I would often get rejected. I learned that no one owes you their time and just leave it alone.

I'm a big guy with big feet, when I'm out in public, I sometimes come across people who feel the need to wonder what shoe size I wear or where do I play football. I've heard this question repeatedly over the last 10 years and let me tell you something, it's annoying. I usually respond with uninterested answers to their questions hoping that they'll get the hint and leave me alone. I figure hey if no one owes me their time I don't owe anyone my time as well.
This is so strange! Who goes around looking at people's feet? After 10 years, I'd be taking it a lot farther than disinterested responses. I'd have come up with some killer snappy comebacks.

"I'm glad you asked! I'm doing a survey on people who are fascinated with strangers' shoe sizes. Would you mind taking the time to fill out my 6-page questionnaire?"

Hey, Javier--apply your creative energy to Ro2113's dilemma. You're on a roll!

 
Old 01-07-2013, 03:18 PM
 
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Hey, Javier--apply your creative energy to Ro2113's dilemma. You're on a roll!
What's that?


Here's one for the road:


- Nice day,huh?
- Sorry, I don´t talk to strangers?
- Bloody amateurs, you are supposed to answer "but they said on the news it could rain tonight!"...oooopps, wait a second, you aint my field agent? Okay,nevermind, this conversation did not exist.
 
Old 01-07-2013, 03:31 PM
 
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Ro2112, maybe you should just respond, "Sorry, I don't talk to strangers", lol!
 
Old 01-07-2013, 03:39 PM
 
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huh?
 
Old 01-07-2013, 03:56 PM
 
Location: Central California
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OP, don't worry about it. These things happen.

Just move on to the next one.
 
Old 01-07-2013, 04:05 PM
 
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The 'I have a boyfriend' excuse is third to the 'I'm a lesbian' and the 'I don't feel like talking to you' excuses.
It can flipflop.

I've had women use the boyfriend excuse more than the lesbian excuse to disuade me from pursuing her any further.

Most of the time the excuses I've got from women are, "I don't date black guys" and "I don't date short guys."
 
Old 01-07-2013, 05:12 PM
 
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I'm a shorty 170cm I've never got that one. Pretty funny though. The "black guys" one is overly upfront in my opinion. Very rude.
 
Old 01-07-2013, 05:18 PM
 
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I find that a lot of women don't have manners but expect it of the man. If the man said something similar to a short black woman she'd probably hit him or ball out crying.

Personally if there rude I'll be rude. Usually ends up tears, but I keep my self respect intact. Other women and men seem to respect it too.
 
Old 01-07-2013, 05:26 PM
 
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I find that a lot of women don't have manners but expect it of the man. If the man said something similar to a short black woman she'd probably hit him or ball out crying.

Personally if there rude I'll be rude. Usually ends up tears, but I keep my self respect intact. Other women and men seem to respect it too.
Perhaps you find a lot of gals don't have manners because of a bit of bias in what you perceive to be manners for a gal. Such as how it's rude and lacking class for a gal to tell a random strange guy she's sorry but she doesn't talk to strangers however it may be rude for a guy to tell a gal to go kill herself and make unwanted sexual comments towards her.

"If they're rude I'll be rude" is possibly circular as some could see it as rude for a stranger intruding on her time and invading her personal space because he likes how she looks and feels owed a conversation because he wants one.
 
Old 01-07-2013, 05:29 PM
 
Location: Chicago IL
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This is so strange! Who goes around looking at people's feet? After 10 years, I'd be taking it a lot farther than disinterested responses. I'd have come up with some killer snappy comebacks.

"I'm glad you asked! I'm doing a survey on people who are fascinated with strangers' shoe sizes. Would you mind taking the time to fill out my 6-page questionnaire?"

Hey, Javier--apply your creative energy to Ro2113's dilemma. You're on a roll!
You be surprised people tend to pick up and notice the most random of things at times. I used to get the same comments about playing football because of my shoulder width it wasn't until then I noticed I had wide shoulders.
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