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Old 01-11-2013, 07:48 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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That's the thing though, even if it IS a staged photo, girls DO sit and pose like that in the club, or even in a restaurant, except they are the ones photographing themselves.
If this is what women in clubs look like, I can see why men go to bars/clubs to shop for women. I've never known any women who looked anything like most of those girls, nor have I known any women who owned clothes like theirs. I can assure you there are very few women in Seattle who look like that. The only place I've seen women who look like the last three is on Indian reservations. Those boobs don't look real. But...whatever.
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Old 01-11-2013, 07:53 PM
 
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If this is what women in clubs look like, I can see why men go to bars/clubs to shop for women. I've never known any women who looked anything like most of those girls, nor have I known any women who owned clothes like theirs. I can assure you there are very few women in Seattle who look like that. The only place I've seen women who look like the last three is on Indian reservations. Those boobs don't look real. But...whatever.
It depends on what clubs you go to. The ones that my friends and I used to go to are divey bars with a dance section - everyone was much more casual there. Whereas in clubs that tend to be more Top 40s oriented have people that dress like the ladies pictured.
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Old 01-11-2013, 07:56 PM
 
Location: Central California
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In Australia everyone is very friendly. Randomly approaching someone isn't really strange. I remember going to a convenient store with my buddy to buy a soft drink. There was women working so I talked to her a bit (the store was empty). Probably about 20 minutes later I asked her if she wouldn't mind I come back in a few hours once she was done working. She told me not to bother and just hang around instead if I wasn't busy. I said sure. wasn't for any kind of chance or thought about going to bed. We hung out cause it was fun and we clicked. happens all the time...
This is normal in America too.

The only place it isn't normal is in Bizarro City Data World.
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Old 01-11-2013, 07:57 PM
 
Location: The western periphery of Terra Australis
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I'm surprised that guys do this, women seem so unapproachable in grocery stores etc. I mean who does that? But if it works for them, and the men actually meet someone they like, I don't see the harm in it. As long as you're not overstepping any boundaries or whatnot. As a woman, you might not realise it's not always easy for men to meet women through the 'conventional means.' Especially these days when they're so private.
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Old 01-11-2013, 07:58 PM
 
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No-o-o, it isn't! 2 or 3 of them have sexy smiles on, "come hither" smiles, not ordinary smiles. The 2nd one from the left has an ordinary smile.

Really, you guys don't get these cues? Or has society been pornified to the extent that porn smiles look normal to you?
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Yes, bingo. I don't watch porn, but I've seen a few Playboy mags in my life. You don't see the middle one's smile as being seductive? Compared to the one to the left of her? And the 2 end ones, too, a little bit.

Wow, facebook?? Women put up photos of themselves in low-cut dresses and seductive smiles?? Jeez. I've never known any women who had clothes like that. I've never even known any women who had boobs like that, lol!
Oh come on... Do you sit around reading Readers Digest and watching reruns of the "Andy Griffith Show?"

Nowadays, when a lot of women see a camera they always put on that "come hither" look. But none of these girls is doing that except maybe the one in the middle. The other ones look fairly normal to me. Women all across America get dolled up like this just to go out with "the girls."

But yeah, young women nowadays go into heat apparently every time they see a camera from what I've seen on Facebook. It's the whole culture of narcissism that seems to be spreading amongst those who grew up with the internet.
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Old 01-11-2013, 07:59 PM
 
Location: Central California
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If this is what women in clubs look like, I can see why men go to bars/clubs to shop for women. I've never known any women who looked anything like most of those girls, nor have I known any women who owned clothes like theirs. I can assure you there are very few women in Seattle who look like that. The only place I've seen women who look like the last three is on Indian reservations. Those boobs don't look real. But...whatever.
Wow, Ruth, I'm a bit surprised at your comments.

That's very normal for bars/clubs. The way the girls look and dress are spot on.

Now do you see why I like going to places like that?
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Old 01-11-2013, 08:00 PM
 
Location: The western periphery of Terra Australis
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In Australia everyone is very friendly. Randomly approaching someone isn't really strange. I remember going to a convenient store with my buddy to buy a soft drink. There was women working so I talked to her a bit (the store was empty). Probably about 20 minutes later I asked her if she wouldn't mind I come back in a few hours once she was done working. She told me not to bother and just hang around instead if I wasn't busy. I said sure. wasn't for any kind of chance or thought about going to bed. We hung out cause it was fun and we clicked. happens all the time...
Eh, not that much, depends where you are. The cities are getting less and less friendly. Random approaches are getting less and less doable.
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Old 01-11-2013, 08:00 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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But yeah, young women nowadays go into heat apparently every time they see a camera from what I've seen on Facebook. It's the whole culture of narcissism that seems to be spreading amongst those who grew up with the internet.
Thanks for explaining this. The young women I know don't do this. I do think porn has influenced some people, maybe subconsciously, to a certain extent.
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Old 01-11-2013, 08:01 PM
 
Location: Central California
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Eh, not that much, depends where you are. The cities are getting less and less friendly. Random approaches are getting less and less doable.
Come to NYC sometime. The girls are INSANELY friendly.

Los Angeles too.
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Old 01-11-2013, 08:03 PM
 
Location: The western periphery of Terra Australis
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Wow, some of them are really advertising their wares, aren't they?
Is this a for-real photo, or was this staged for a men's magazine? Their expressions make it look like it was for a men's mag.
You don't go clubbing very often do you Ruth? lol
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