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Old 01-08-2013, 08:31 PM
 
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I don't think i would want to be with someone of above-average attractiveness. Too much competition. I'd feel like i'd always have to be at the top of my game, and i could never relax or let my guard down.
This makes no sense to me.
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Old 01-08-2013, 08:35 PM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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Not only would I want to be - I am. Of course, it might not work so well if we weren't so compatible anyway. I also don't agree with the premise that doing so will lead to problems - it sounds more like the OP has issues of confidence and defeatism.
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Old 01-08-2013, 08:36 PM
 
Location: Central California
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Smh so hard right now.
ja1myn for the win!

hahahaha love this guy
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Old 01-08-2013, 08:40 PM
 
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I would like to be in a relationship with someone who has an above average personality. If he is a 10, that's ok too. But I'm not looking for only looks.

I have dated some super good looking guys and to be honest, it was intimidating.
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Old 01-08-2013, 08:40 PM
 
Location: Atlanta & NYC
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No, I prefer girls like this:
Is that a soggy waffle?

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ja1myn for the win!

hahahaha love this guy
Captain! Good to have you aboard again!
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Old 01-08-2013, 08:46 PM
 
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Nah most guys can't handle it. Sorry but most guys can't handle their woman being the center of attention. Insecure egos.
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Old 01-08-2013, 08:54 PM
 
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Do you even have to worry about this??
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Old 01-08-2013, 08:59 PM
 
Location: Philadelphia, PA
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Nah most guys can't handle it. Sorry but most guys can't handle their woman being the center of attention. Insecure egos.
Yes that is exactly how i feel. I know i would be jealous if other guys were always trying to chat up my girlfriend. I'd much rather date an average-looking woman, where she will still get plenty of attention from guys but hopefully not AS much as a really hot girl would.
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Old 01-08-2013, 09:01 PM
 
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Tough for the majority of men to date extremely attractive women (8s and 9s) and nearly impossible for only a rare select few to date 10s.

In order to do so the man must be so secure and confident in himself that it almost comes off as arrogant.

This is one of those check points for many posers: if you're faking how secure and confident you are, it will show like a bad neck tattoo when you date an extremely attractive girl.
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Old 01-08-2013, 09:04 PM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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Tough for the majority of men to date extremely attractive women (8s and 9s) and nearly impossible for only a rare select few to date 10s.
Well yeah, assuming that attractiveness is normally distributed.



then 68% of men would fall in the 'average' range
While around 6% of women would be 8's or 9's.

Obviously it'd be tough for 68% of men to date 6% of women.
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