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Yeah of course right now, I'm usually in some kind of relationship with a woman.
People who know me on here know this.
I don't know you, just that your views seem overly simplistic.
Desire for sex simply doesn't occur in a vacuum, it can be dependent on how the rest of the relationship is going. BOTH partners have to be respective of the other's needs, and find compromises.
In the case of mismatched libidos, though, I don't think it's entirely fair if the person with the higher libido always gets what they want when they want it, as BJ is suggesting. That's a sure builder of resentment on the lower libido's end. If one of them wants sex twice a day and the other is happy with twice a week, they're both going to have to compromise.
Yes, I do think people should compromise and work together. There are ways to be warm and responsive and not have sex. I think BJ is talking more about shutting out and shutting down.
The whole premise of the thread, that women "give sex" is weird. Sex is something that happens between two people, that they do together out of a shared sense of intimacy or attraction or lust or whatever. A woman doesn't 'give" a man sex any more than she would "give" him skiing.
Best post of the thread. Sex is supposed to be something both people want to share. If you're having to "get" or "give" it, you're doing it wrong. Find someone you want to have sex with, who also wants to have sex with you, and have sex. Games are for kids.
how long should a man remain faithful to his GF is she won't give him sex?
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Originally Posted by Kenneth-Kaunda
cheating is nature's way of spreading the seed.
I don't know how old you are, but it is obvious you know damn little about women. To begin with the subject of this post is foolish. No one including yourself, needs sex to survive. In my book you remain faithful to a girlfriend until you both decide you want to have sex. In no way is she obligated to give in to your wishes or demands just because you are calling her your girlfriend or taking her out and spending money on her. I doubt that you know a whole lot about nature, seems the rest of what you know is quite limited. My best advice to you is "get a life". I've come to the conclusion it would be real refreshing if you could write just one thread that took some common sense to compose.
And what i said goes both ways IMO,but I think for women the problem would be more the quality of sex then not actually getting it.
Exactly!
I wonder how many men who say their wives/girlfriends aren't interested in sex are just jumping in without any foreplay or romance or anything along those lines? Women can take a little bit longer to get their engines running and if you try to just jump on on, she's probably not going to enjoy it.
I love sex, quite a bit... but if I'm not enjoying it and I have to 'finish myself off' after having sex because he is just 'too tired' to help me out then I'm not going to want it as much. It becomes a chore, and not something that is pleasurable to both parties.
Exactly!
I wonder how many men who say their wives/girlfriends aren't interested in sex are just jumping in without any foreplay or romance or anything along those lines? Women can take a little bit longer to get their engines running and if you try to just jump on on, she's probably not going to enjoy it.
I love sex, quite a bit... but if I'm not enjoying it and I have to 'finish myself off' after having sex because he is just 'too tired' to help me out then I'm not going to want it as much. It becomes a chore, and not something that is pleasurable to both parties.
I agree! I'd like to think that most men know this...but um, after reading what some of the male posters have stated, I think that maybe that's not the case...
I agree! I'd like to think that most men know this...but um, after reading what some of the male posters have stated, I think that maybe that's not the case...
I think many display a complete lack of empathy. They simply do NOT understand that a woman may need a little more than just seeing a set of boobs to get turned on. Generally, porn is for men, romance novels are for women.
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how long should a man remain faithful to his GF is she won't give him sex?
I'd like to think that most men know this...but um, after reading what some of the male posters have stated, I think that maybe that's not the case...
